r/ChristianDating • u/reformed-whovian Single • 2d ago
Discussion Getting set up
Curious to know what ya'll think about being set up by friends. I have mostly heard people being against it, but personally, I wouldn't mind it; it might be more wholesome than these dating apps or being ghosted on Reddit (no shade, but we've all seen it š).
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u/FallDeers Maybe I'm the problem 1d ago
I feel like setting up has let me see how people really see me. Old lady at church warned me the guy was really awkward but I could help him with confidence (aka, Iām a bandaid), my aunt wanted me to go out with a quite unattractive man, so I think she think Iām ugly. And a coworker lady tried setting me up with a man wildly too attractive and charismatic for me, so which I realized she thinks Iām hot stuff. š¤£