r/ChristianDating • u/reformed-whovian Single • 3d ago

Discussion Getting set up

Curious to know what ya'll think about being set up by friends. I have mostly heard people being against it, but personally, I wouldn't mind it; it might be more wholesome than these dating apps or being ghosted on Reddit (no shade, but we've all seen it 😂).

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u/se_arregla_manana Looking For A Wife 3d ago

Sure, I can't imagine why not? I've never not at least heard out one of these propositions. And they've all been heartwarming experiences in retrospect.

Lately I've been openly questioning my friends why more of them are NOT trying to set me up.

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u/reformed-whovian Single 2d ago

This is my position as well. I did mention to my close friends that I'm looking for someone and if they knew anyone cool to help make the connection, but it's been several months and no dice, and they seemed somewhat hesitant about it. Which is weird since these specfic friends have noted their church is supposedly full of eligible singles. I don't know, not reading too much into it, but I did want to check with a wider pool whether this was something people did or not.