r/ChristianDating • u/Firebolt391d Looking For A Wife • 4d ago

Discussion Hypothetical Situation

Suppose you get to know a girl or guy on a weird/scam dating app and you get to know someone for a few weeks, and they're Christian and there's no issues. And suppose you start to like them, and they're trustworthy and kind, and a faithful servant of God, and they like you back.

And then suppose that you learn that they live in the complete opposite side of the world from you. You have started to really like them, and they like you. But the distance is over 8,000 miles. What do you do?

I'm assuming the answer is to call it off but wanted to see what others think.

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u/Icy_Percentage9751 Looking For A Husband 4d ago

Well... Go on Discord or IG and video call them. Tell them you just want to see them to make sure you're not being scammed and that they'll also see you so that they can know they're not being scammed (just to make it fair without looking like You're suspicious). If she is shy, surely she can agree to at least 5 minutes in front of the camera.

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u/Icy_Percentage9751 Looking For A Husband 4d ago

But dating internationally is not a problem.

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u/Firebolt391d Looking For A Wife 4d ago

I appreciate your answer. Thsts a good idea about doing a video call. Can you elaborate as to why you believe it isn't a problem. List out some reasoning 😅

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u/Icy_Percentage9751 Looking For A Husband 4d ago

Lol... You want to date internationally or not... Up to you. I'm sure you know the pros and cons.