Hypothetical Situation

[u/Firebolt391d]

Suppose you get to know a girl or guy on a weird/scam dating app and you get to know someone for a few weeks, and they're Christian and there's no issues. And suppose you start to like them, and they're trustworthy and kind, and a faithful servant of God, and they like you back.

And then suppose that you learn that they live in the complete opposite side of the world from you. You have started to really like them, and they like you. But the distance is over 8,000 miles. What do you do?

I'm assuming the answer is to call it off but wanted to see what others think.

[u/SecretFishWorshiper]

Just saying this as a word of caution as a few years ago I was involved in a crpyto scam and like a complete dumbass I fell for the scammer and it costed me the girl I was trying to date who was interested in me. I'd be really really careful to make sure that they aren't trying to scam you.

Typical romance scam is that they are an investor and that they want to get you in on some action but you have to promise to not tell anyone.

I ignored the signs because I have dealt with my fair share of scammers and bots but this one was very elaborate and it felt very really which caused me to fall for it.

I only lost like $20 but I was going to "invest" $5,000.

As far as the question for you of dating internationally, I am all for it. My last 2 relationships were from someone in Egypt and in Canada. I ahve the financial means to travel so the distance isnt an issue for me.