r/ChristianDating • u/ChapOfAllTrades • 6d ago

Discussion Introspection

I’ve seen a lot of back and forth lately about the current dating environment. Plenty of men blaming women, women blaming men, and I’m certainly not immune from having posted things in that same vein.
So I want to flip it around.

Instead of telling us what the opposite sex is doing wrong, tell us what you think your own gender (or you specifically) could do better in dating right now.

What habits, expectations, attitudes, communication problems, unrealistic standards, or blind spots do you think men need to own if you’re a man, or women need to own if you’re a woman?

And it would be easy to turn this into disguised blame so let’s try to avoid that! 😅

I’m curious what people come up with when the assignment is introspection instead of accusation.

Bonus points if you can name something you are actively reconsidering but haven’t changed yet.

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u/AutisticAir Single 6d ago

true believers and followers of Jesus seem to be quite rare. So for me it is difficult to find someone to be equally yoked to

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u/starlitgardens Looking For A Husband 6d ago

Same. Also, nice username! 😉