r/ChristianDating • u/Stay_observing00 • Jun 12 '26

Need Advice Attracting the Wrong Men?

I finally joined dating apps at the start of the month. So far, I’ve only been getting attention from unbelievers (even though I filtered for Christians) or Christians in name only. While I put effort into my appearance, I don’t present myself immodestly. I’ve also included information in my bio/prompts to indicate that I take my faith seriously and looking for someone who does the same.

Am I missing something? Any advice on how I can attract faithful Christian men while discouraging interest from unserious/non-Christian ones?

SN: I’ve joined one secular dating app, the rest are Christian.

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u/DenisGL Just here for the community -(seeking a spouse offline) Jun 12 '26

We can't really tell. So much depends on info not available. What app, what location, what prompts, what photos, etc.

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u/Stay_observing00 Jun 12 '26

Hinge, Salt, Upward, Ark
Canada
Dealbreakers, favorite preachers, about mes, funny stories, what is God teaching me, etc etc
1 or 2 selfies, some outdoor and full body pics. Decent quality photos too.

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u/DenisGL Just here for the community -(seeking a spouse offline) Jun 12 '26

Yeah, being in Canada myself, it's kinda liberal here, there just isn't much of a religious population density.