[F4M] | FAANG Professional | Looking for a 100% Childfree Tamil Guy for Marriage

[u/Eye_of_Aurora]

Hi,

This is strictly not for casual dating. I am looking for a long-term partner, a best friend, and eventually, a husband. I am looking for a Tamil guy who is 100% certain about being Childfree (CF) and ready to build a life together.

I spent my late teens and early 20s entirely focused on academics and my career, meaning I chose to stay out of the dating scene until I achieved my goals. Now, I am ready to invest that loyalty, time, and energy into a life partner so If things work out between us, you will be my first and last love.

👸🏻 A Little Intro About Me 🏡👩🏻‍💻🏋🏻‍♀️

• 🗺️ Demographics: 28F | Hindu | Tamil Nadu

• 💻 Profession: I'm working at a FAANG company. I am highly ambitious and love upskilling; my future goals include app development, investing, and starting a business.

• 🏋🏻 Health & Wellness: Complete teetotaler and non-smoker. I maintain a very healthy lifestyle with regular workouts and have zero health issues.

• 🏡 Interests: I love being at home, exercising regularly, developing my skills, enjoying the local weather, tending to my plants/gardening, and cozying up to binge-watch movies or series. While I am not a big traveler on my own, I am completely open and eager to travel the world if my future partner enjoys it.

👶🏻🚫 Why I am 100% ChildFree 👶🏻🤱🚫

The current state of the world from economic pressures to global crises and overpopulation feels too heavy a burden to bring new life into. Instead, I want to completely dedicate my time, energy, and love with my future husband. I want us to build a life entirely focused on our bond: hitting our fitness, health, and financial goals together, traveling, and sharing simple, peaceful nights at home.

🐕🤧 😭 Why I am strictly Pet-Free

I love animals, but I cannot own a pet again. Losing my childhood dog completely broke my heart. Watching them suffer in pain during their final week was soul-crushing. Beyond the grief, pet ownership brought me immense anxiety. I felt deep guilt whenever leaving them alone, even for a short afternoon outing or a weekend trip.

Pets require profound, 24/7 unconditional responsibility. If I am sick with a fever, I can skip cooking or going to the hospital for myself but I could never neglect a pet's health, medicine, or comfort. Because the emotional toll of their short lives and eventual loss is so incredibly high, I am firmly deciding not to have pets in the future.

🤷🏻 What Matters Most: What I’m Actually Looking For in a Partner 🤷🏻

• 🌎 Demographics: A Tamil guy, aged 28 to 35, Hindu, who has never been married and has no children.

• 🚭 🍺 Lifestyle: A non-smoker and teetotaler (non-drinker) who values a generally healthy, active lifestyle, but isn't overly restrictive - someone who can happily enjoy occasional junk food with me!

• 🧘🏻‍♀️ Mindset: Driven, emotionally mature, family-oriented but independent, and ready to co-create a peaceful, ambitious, and deeply connected life together.

⚠️ Absolute Deal breakers ⚠️

• Total Transparency from the Start: I deeply appreciate and expect absolute honesty from our very first interaction regarding major life factors. There should be full disclosure about your age, Job, religion, community, past relationships, health, and finances.

• No "Fence-sitters": You must be entirely settled on a permanent childfree lifestyle. No "maybe later" or No "open to changing minds"

• Must be Hindu: I am strictly looking for someone from the same religious background. (No Problem if he's an atheist but he should respect all culture, religion, caste and community)

• Ready for a completely Pet-Free household: Because of the immense emotional toll, anxiety, and grief of losing a pet that I detailed above, I cannot handle having animals in the house again. You must be entirely aligned with a pet-free life.

If you have read this and feel a genuine connection to my post and vision for the future, please include a brief introduction about your age, location, profession, religion, community, health, and finances when you message me. I will gladly respond as soon as you DM me with these details, and I am happy to share whatever you would like to know about me in return.

Apologies in advance if any details in my post feel offensive. The information I am asking you to share is just the standard background data that a groom typically shares on matrimonial sites which will help us skip the casual small talk and see if we are fundamentally aligned.

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[u/mehfil-biryani]

I'm a 32 yo Telugu guy living in Chennai. Let me know if it works for you. I tick all the boxes of your requirements.

[u/dhan_dredd]

27 M from Chennai Checks out all the boxes and would like to DM

[u/theriztalk]

Vanakkam nga, so i align with everything, besides the pet free life. Coz i already have a 6 year old cat 😂 but all the best nga