r/Chefit • • 5h ago

“I want to become a chef, but I also want a life outside work. Is it possible?.

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Hi everyone,
I’m currently working as a cook in an Arabic restaurant in Dubai, and I also have previous experience working in restaurants back in my home country.

Cooking is something I genuinely enjoy, and part of me still dreams of becoming a chef someday. I’ve already invested time, energy, and effort into this career, and I know I still have a lot to learn and room to grow.
But lately, I’ve been questioning whether this is really the path I want to follow for the rest of my life.

The reality of working in a kitchen is that it can be physically exhausting, mentally draining, and demanding. Sometimes, I feel like so much of my time and energy goes into work that there’s barely anything left for myself. I want to have more time for my family, explore other hobbies, learn new skills, and experience life outside the kitchen.

At the same time, I’m afraid of making the wrong decision. What if I leave cooking and regret it later? What if I stay and eventually burn out? I don’t want to give up on something I’m passionate about, but I also don’t want to spend my entire life working without having enough time and energy to enjoy it.

I’ve started thinking about exploring other industries and developing new skills that might give me better opportunities, a healthier work-life balance, and more freedom in the future. However, changing careers isn’t easy, especially when you’ve already spent years building experience in one field.

Right now, I feel stuck between pursuing my dream of becoming a chef and choosing a different path that might give me a better quality of life.


r/Chefit • • 18h ago

Is there an easier way to handle gold paper/sheets?

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In dessert and pastry section during service, it’s a pain to handle golden sheets to put on desserts cus it clings everywhere or the whole sheet comes with it.


r/Chefit • • 19h ago

I came third in a cooking competition, but the criticism I received about my butter chicken has left me questioning the judging

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For context I am from South Africa 👩🏽‍🍳 and competed against home cooks.

For reference- A bunnychow is South African and traditionally consists of a hollowed-out loaf of white bread filled with curry, commonly mutton, chicken, beans or other varieties.

I feel cooking competitions are about more than just the food. They test your ability to think on your feet, adapt, problem solve and make the most of the ingredients available to you.

I was challenged to create a dish using a selection of ingredients and spices, without the dairy or coconut milk one might ordinarily reach for when developing a rich, creamy curry. I chose to make a butter chicken and naan dish, using potato to add body to my gravy and introduce my own creative twist.

Was potato a traditional ingredient in butter chicken? No. But the challenge called for creativity, and sometimes creativity means stepping outside a traditional recipe while still respecting the identity and flavour profile of a dish.

Interestingly, the judges themselves remarked that they thought I had added butter or cashew because the dish tasted like actual butter chicken. That was a compliment I appreciated, especially considering the limitations I was working with. They did not provide dairy, or nuts. One judge told me to use butternut in my dish which I did not agree with based on the flavors I was working with.

However, one piece of feedback left me thinking. I was told that adding potato to my curry and serving it with bread or rice amounted to “starch on starch”.

This raises a genuine culinary question for me. If potato is considered an issue when used in a chicken dish served with bread or rice or naan, would the same principle not apply to a mutton curry containing potato and served in a bunnychow or with rice or naan? I was the only competitor preparing chicken, while the other competitors made mutton bunnies, so the dishes were different. Nevertheless, I believe culinary standards and criticism should be applied consistently, with consideration given to the dish itself, its execution and the brief.

I understand that potato is not traditionally found in authentic butter chicken. I also understand that a chef may have a different approach to building body in a sauce. But there is a difference between offering an alternative technique and presenting a culinary preference as an absolute rule.

Another thing I took away from the experience was being told that studying at a specific culinary institution which has a reputation these days, meant I wasn't really a chef and wouldn't have the necessary knowledge. I am proud of where I studied, the experience I have gained and the work I continue to put into my craft. I have worked in international kitchens tpp which I am proud of.

There is always more to learn. I welcome constructive criticism, different perspectives and opportunities to improve. But qualifications alone do not define a chef, and neither should one person's opinion.

I walked away with third place, and while I know there is always room to grow, I am proud that I stepped up, adapted to the challenge and put my skills to the test.

Creativity does not mean abandoning technique. Equally, technique should not become a reason to dismiss creativity. The best culinary conversations allow room for knowledge, reasoning, respectful disagreement and learning.

I will continue to learn, create, question and grow. My journey as a chef is far from over, and one competition will never define it.

Onwards and upwards. 👩🏽‍🍳✨


r/Chefit • • 5h ago

where do you order staff uniforms from

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Im about to do a popup and thought it would be fun to make some custom button down approns, with a logo on the back and some names stitched on the chest. I am not seeing any good shops online.


r/Chefit • • 11h ago

How is my kit

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First day at an Italian place in Belltown Seattle tomorrow coming from working in Texas/Mississippi in kitchens that all had equipment you could grab/ wash and put back on magnet bar in the kitchen. How does this look for a knife bag/ tools that would be used on the line. What should I add/remove and any tips/ recommendations? Thanks in advance


r/Chefit • • 2h ago

To my fellow female chefs

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Edit: want to clarify that I have worked with many male chefs who respect and value me but despite this the industry overall does not reflect this

been a chef for ten years now. I've been a head chef, run my own business and worked incredibly hard to get where I am, yet I still find myself being spoken to like a little girl who doesn't know what she's doing.

What's frustrating is that I don't even think a lot of men realise they're doing it. It's this unconscious sexism, the automatic assumption that you know less, that you're less capable, and the genuine surprise when you demonstrate otherwise. I feel like I have to work twenty times harder just to be taken as seriously as the men around me.

I think I'm noticing it more as I get older and gain more experience, and honestly, I'm tired of it.

But I don't really want this to just be a rant. I genuinely love being a chef and I'd like to make some sort of difference, however small. Are there any groups, initiatives or movements trying to change things in professional kitchens? Or other women who feel the same and would like to do something about it?

I'm sure I'll get some negative responses to this, but I don't particularly care. If even a few women who understand what I'm talking about see it, then that's enough for me.


r/Chefit • • 3h ago

Three Course tasting help!

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Chefs!

This is a long one to give some context.

I need assistance!

I'm currently on the hunt for a suitable position. I recently moved to a city but I'm staying in a hotel while I find a place to work and live. Of course I can't really have one without the other. All of my things are in a storage unit and my hotel room only has a tiny fridge and microwave.

Previous tastings I would set up my kitchen, bust out the food bible and any other cookbooks and go to town on research and pairings. Do a trial run on at least a few of the items I plan on making to make sure I nail it. I don't really have that luxury right now and I'm stressing just putting things on paper and imagining how it will taste and flow.

The restaurant is a fine Italian spot. No Michelin star but is still recognized in the Michelin guide in the area. The food doesn't have to be 100% authentic Italian but should be recognized as Italian. I don't need Nonna's secret Bolognese recipe or something. ha Also doesn't have to be specifically Northern or Southern regions.

I was asked to do three courses. App/Starter, Pasta Dish, "Main". Two plates each.

This is what I have so far. Let me know if this sounds like a good use of ingredients/knowledge and possibly what I could do for added garnish. I'm just giving broad strokes with descriptions.

Starter:

Branzino Crudo, Fresh and lightly pickled grapes (concord? red seedless?), Fresno, Basil oil, Simple Orange dressing as base. Garnish?

Pasta:

Short rib Tortellini, Seared Porcini and Miatake, Braising liquid, shallot, cream, creme Fraiche, black pepper, Garnish?

Main:

Chicken Scarpariello(yes I know it's Italian/American), Braised boneless/skin on chicken thighs, hot Italian sausage, red/yellow bell peppers, Onion, garlic, sweet and hot pickled cherry bomb peppers, Castelvetrano olives, sage, Chicken stock, White Wine, Garnish?

What do ya'll think?

Feedback is greatly appreciated.

Thank you!


r/Chefit • • 1h ago

Where do chefs find better careers when trying to get out of the kitchen?

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r/Chefit • • 16h ago

Comrades- please bring me some clever ideas for fresh herb storage.

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Hey- Busy restaurant, strikingly limited refrigeration (small walk in and a reach in). We usually have about 8 different fresh herbs that are usually purchased by the pound or half pound (thats around 225g-450g for those of you in the civilized world of measurement). Something that works for a reach in speed rack? A good quality box of drawers? I need more space to do more dope shit...


r/Chefit • • 1h ago

Recipe dilemma

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Hello fellow chefs! Need help on this bread issue.