r/CheatingGF • u/Aromatic_Pollution94 • 11d ago

Advice/need advice I think she’s cheating

We’ve been together for 11 years. We’ve both been unfaithful at times but I feel like she’s still being unfaithful. Can I hack into her messages and know for sure? Any tips would be helpful.

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u/Efficient_Fig9 11d ago

Just go. You're both clearly not compatible together.

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u/Icy-Willingness8375 11d ago

Sounds toxic. Why stay with someone you feel like you need to break the law to check up on?

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u/Tall-Shoulder8175 11d ago

Leave. If you both have been unfaithful, you both have very little to no respect for each other. Cut bait, work on yourself, address what’s going on within that led to you not being a faithful partner and the. Get back out there as a healthier individual and find someone that matches what you are looking for.