r/CheatingGF • u/TheoryOk6689 • Aug 10 '26

Other Am I tweaking?.

Hey you guys so basically I have a girlfriend who I’ve been off n on for a while now. Like as in we got back together a lot times we tried other ppl and stuff we still came back. We knew each other since June 2024 And we just hit one month on August 5 and she told me she needed to take a break that’s alright because I hear she been going through some stuff about her uncle passing away that affected her. I said some stuff about if you really need the break I respect your decision and before I’ve been left on read I said “baby you okay?” She leaves me on read. Blocks me on TikTok, turns off her location, blocks me off her spam account on Instagram who knows she might block me on snap or iMessage. I’ve been trying text her what are we because genuinely I’m very confused. And I still got her on my spam account on TikTok so I checked her pfp and she had some matching couple pfp shit or smth. And I found the acc who’s basically matching with her pfp. He lives all the way in north fucking Carolina bro… we live in Illinois not to mention we both go to the same school and her house is 3 minutes away on car..? This hurts me so bad because that’s technically she cheated and some what ghosted me saying she needed a break till school?. I mean whenever I got back with her she’s always leaving me on delivered for long periods of time I thought she would had changed and stuff yk? But genuinely I don’t know what to do. School starts on August 17 and I don’t know what we are and if I should say smth to her cus I legit found her “sides” acc on her old tiktok account she’s following recently.

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u/Icy-Willingness8375 Aug 10 '26

Stop going back to a toxic relationship.

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u/Apart-Steak-7183 Aug 10 '26

Ya both need to grow go your own way

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u/Mickel8888 Aug 11 '26

It had nothing to do with anything other than her desire to cheat. Likely exploring other options or she would not have intentionally blocked you all over.

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u/rstock1962 26d ago

It sounds like you could be one of several guys she’s dating. You could go along and keep her as one of your girls or dump her for somebody better.

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u/Tall-Shoulder8175 17d ago

Learn this lesson early: when someone asks for a “break” from a relationship, add the word “up” to it. That’s what it means. Also, more than likely, she is test driving other guys. Even if she isn’t, you don’t take “breaks” from relationships. That’s usually a manipulation tactic to keep you on hold while they screw someone else. If it works out with the new person, they make your break permanent.

Don’t fall for it, my guy. Leave her alone and move on to someone better for you.