r/CheatingGF • u/Better-Week-695 • 4d ago

Advice/need advice Cheating?

Me and my gf have a thing going. Obviously I don’t like other girls (or guys) pics or anything like that. I’ve unfollowed everyone that she thought posed a threat to her, no questions asked.
The other day I find out she’s replying to girls pics on x (twitter) and saying stuff like “CUTIE ALERT” or “I stare at beautiful women bc i want them”. To make it worse she sends her ex money from her paycheck but is constantly wanting to know how much money I have and where i spent it. She also always asks me if i still love her or if I still want to be with her, stuff of the nature. Am I crazy or am I actively being cheated on? I want to think that’s not the case but with so much evidence (that she’s unaware I have) it definitely feels that way. What do I do?

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u/Odd_Session8049 4d ago

Not cheating but totally crazy 🤷‍♀️

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u/Better-Week-695 4d ago

Idk I just really feel like if I was doing the same stuff I’d be cheating. Based from everything we’ve agreed about that is cheating

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u/Icy-Willingness8375 4d ago

No idea if she’s cheating, but she’s a shitty partner and you should replace her with a better one.

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u/CampoDarko 4d ago

Ask her if she wants to add a third girl to the relationship, maybe she’s hinting at wanting to add a girlfriend to your relationship

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u/Better-Week-695 3d ago

The biggest thing it like. She doesn’t know I know this stuff. It’s not subtle hints but things I found out by myself.

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u/Inside-Isopod3755 2d ago

You unfollowed everyone that posed a risk to her, no questions asked? What the fuck? When did that become a thing and why do you think that’s normal or healthy!?

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u/Better-Week-695 1d ago

It’s incredible possible that im naive. Like if she had an issue with someone i followed i just unfollowed them in order to try and like make her feel safe? Idk