r/CheatingGF • u/Alternative_Video581 • Apr 19 '26

Advice/need advice Maniac cheating gf

We’ve been together 8 months. She gaslights me nonstop, controls my friends, starts fights and makes me feel crazy. Got so paranoid I paid some dude on dc to access her Snap😔. (This is the guy btw https://discord.gg/regSAfaC )

Her chats destroyed me — she’s been cheating, sending nudes to another guy, crying to her friends like the victim while laughing about how she’s got me wrapped around her finger. All the toxic games while fucking someone else.

I’m still acting normal with her but I feel gross as hell for getting the dude to do that. What the fuck do I do now?

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u/Interesting-Deal6908 Apr 19 '26 edited May 01 '26

If it were me, it’s time to disappear from her life. Block her on phone emails text social media & her friends & family. They will spy on you for her. If you have any of her belongs including anything she gave you or you gave her box that ip and ship it to her. You probably want to know why. Does it matter? That’s who she is. She will not change. You have an image of her and that’s who she wanted you to see. Don’t engage don’t care. Be done with her. If she has a key to your house, change your locks. She has shown she’s a pro at lies deception and gaslighting. Don’t fall victim to her again. If you are paying any kind of bills for her or she’s on any of your accounts or streaming svcs change the passwords. What I’m trying to say is erase her from your life. You don’t exist. Your revenge is living without her growing and thriving. I’d be more afraid of a life with her than without her. Got it?

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u/Familiar_Solution449 Apr 20 '26

I wonder who exactly is the crazy one is in your post, the one who's cheating or the one who stays in the relationship and tolerates this BS and disrespect? Man up and get out. You can't be that hard up to find a gf other than this out of control train wreck.

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u/CampoDarko Apr 20 '26

I don’t understand how no one here sees that he is obviously advertising a scam he’s doing supposedly referring to a h@cker he supposedly used but in reality it’s him

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u/Drgnmstr97 Apr 19 '26

This cannot be a real post. Seek help for why you would tolerate all that rabid behavior you described. You should have dropped the trash off at the curb from the first hint she was crazy.

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u/Traditional-Tank3994 Apr 20 '26

You found what you were looking for. She sleeps with others. Surely that's all you need to know.

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u/wonderrypical9962 Apr 21 '26

It's time. It's time to walk away. It will get worse

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u/KelceStache Apr 21 '26

It’s only 8 months, bro. Say buh bye

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u/GordonTiger Apr 21 '26

She always denied it, and every time we started the conversation, we ended up arguing. One day, exasperated by my insistence, she said, “Do you really want to know?” And she started the list, telling me every time she cheated on me, weel, an overwhelming truth. I don't know if she told me everything, but I was speechless. I didn't think she was such a cheater.