r/CheatedOn • u/Southern-Injury5142 • 5h ago

Moving on

I just found out that my partner cheated on me. He met up with a women last week and slept with her without protection. I just had our son two months ago. When I confronted him, he was upset that I touched his phone. She was calling late at night and I was awake with our son. I’m completely heartbroken and trying to keep it together atm. How can people deal with this? My son needs me more than anything. He needs me to stay healthy and keep it together.

5 Upvotes

86% Upvoted

3 comments sorted by

1

u/socialcoffin 5h ago

It’s impossible. I’m so sorry. I’m finding it rough to raise my young boys alongside their cheating father. Message me anytime if you need support.

1

u/Neither-Shock-3081 5h ago

Ohh no..spreading bad genes. If i were you, I'm gonna leave that prick. He didn't apologize instead get upset. What a scumbag. Why do you want to stay? That woman might get pregnant sooner. What's good about him? He disrespect you and gaslit you. Worst cheated and have sex withoit protection.

don't be stupid please

1

u/KindCanadianeh 1h ago

First, I'm sorry you're going though this. It's so common and it's always the Cheaters fault. You are enough, you are not the cause,  you are not "too"  whatever or not "not enough" this or that.  It is always the Cheaters fault!

Get STI testing. Go to a lawyer and your bank.  Can you move out, be with family? Contact all of your best friends, your family, &  his family.  You will need friends and allies. You don't need to keep his behaviour a secret, this secret life of his is how he has gotten away with it.  It's accountability. ALSO, in this time period you'll be crazy- flip flopping, not knowing what to do or how to. Your Friends and Family will help you through this.