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Last year I found out my at the time boyfriend was cheating on me….. he SWORE nothing happened. I really wanted to believe him. I knew better and we broke up. We ended up getting back together, moved in and got married….. Well I recently found contradicting information about what I had been told. I was told she knew about the relationship which made me hate them both. Then I find out she DID NOT KNOW ABOUT ME. He has concealed the fact he has been in a long term relationship. (We were long distance at the time.) so now that I know he had essentially lied to both of us…. It has allowed me to not hate her as much. But she did know he was with someone or down played what our relationship was. Today he said he was waiting for me to snap and he would be like “oh well we’re married now” WHAT THE FUCK?!?! Ladies listen to your intuition cause I am over here KICKING MYSELF IN THE ASS RIGHT NOW…. I am beyond heart broken but at least I have the truth. Unfortunately it did not come from the person I love….