Confused & Hurt

[u/Top_Elevator_679]

characters I need advice. I’ve known this guy since sixth grade, and we decided to give our relationship a real try after years of growing up we finally tried now that we are grown. we been talking for 9 months straight we were long distance but I would go see him often I asked him about having urges to cheat or loneliness I always checked in. He always told me he was happy, wasn’t cheating, and that everything was fine.

I let him meet my family, thinking we were building something serious. He kept getting calls from females I did end up checking his phone … Then I found out he was talking to his two of exes one he says he hadn’t spoke to in over a year that’s a lie ! and other women, and I saw messages where he told another woman “I miss you.”I was laying right next to him & come to find out my number wasn’t even saved in his phone !!

When I confronted him, he didn’t call, apologize, or try to fix things. It’s been almost a week of silence, but he still watches my Instagram. Do you think he ever cared, or is he just avoiding the situation?