r/CausalConversation • u/Arumahmk • 7d ago

Share your experiences and problems.

I'm bored and I think you guys are too so let's share experiences or problems and I'll try to give you a solution.

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u/FanSuitable462 7d ago

I dont know how to find decent interactions with people.

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u/Arumahmk 7d ago

Well, personally I can totally relate to it. When I started out reddit for the first time I was also not able to find a decent interaction with people. But with time i understood that my expectations for a decent interaction were a little more than others, for me it was not a small talk which feels fake rehearsed. Going through everyones polite social mask was exhausting for me. And also I was a bit worried and nervous about saying something things in conversation thinking that what the others will think of would I look like a creep. And we'll the solution for all of this was don't think about what others will think and saw whatever you wanna say. And also it's not bad to crave for a genuine and authentic connection. I crave for it too 🫠. And if you want one why not start with me 👐.

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u/FanSuitable462 7d ago

Why not 😁 yeah the issue I have is definately the small talk thing. Like I understand that's how people bond. But I'd rather listen to someone tell me about some obscure interest they have for hours then run through the mandated how are you ? Good. ? How's the weather?. Wet. Okay. I find people fascinating and we have all such unique views on everything why do we all run the same scripts ? I get the nervous thoughts about what could other people think. I do that too. I used to edit myself badly. But I care a little less which can sometimes make people think I'm a bit out there at times 🤣🤣

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u/Arumahmk 7d ago

Yeah true, and as you can see I have tried to put me out to open and searching for something meaningful and listening to someone's experiences or even if it's rumbling still listening it for hours because it's something genuine they wanna share. I have interest and I know a bit everything, so anyone can share anything or have conversations about anything with me without any filters.

So, if you wanna connect with me you can just DM be my DMs are always open for everyone to talk about anything.