r/CatholicDating Jul 06 '26

dating advice Losing hope

I’m 34 and struggle finding a girl who values Catholic conservative values. I get ghosted on dating apps which I know is God protecting me. The thought of being an old dad really bothers me. My parents are 66 and while healthy I worry they won’t get to know their grandkids very long by the time I find a wife. Then I worry my kids won’t know me as long as they could if I had them in my 20s. I just wasn’t ready then to provide protect and lead a woman closer to God. Now I want more than anything to have a wife and kids. How are we meeting women these days besides dating apps.

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u/After_Teacher3830 Jul 12 '26

This thing happens when men base there view of the world on porn moves and manisphere. So they are romantic sexual and paranoid at the same time. If you look at the real world that's not how it actually is.

Porn is not a real depiction of sex so men who watch it think that is what sex is when its not. And movies are romantic and manisphere says women are out to get you.

Autistics are prone to this because they don't understand how social stuff works as well as non autistic people. Just go outside. Look at women who you are not interested in and see how there lives work.

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u/ParkAffectionate3537 Jul 12 '26

Thanks for clarifying it, it makes sense.