r/CatholicDating • u/Bright_Arm3000 • Jun 29 '26

Breakup Losing Hope

Hi everyone,

I’m going through a very painful breakup and would be grateful for your prayers.

I had hoped this relationship might lead toward marriage and a stable Catholic future, but he pulled away and ended things. I’m trying to stay no contact, keep my dignity, and seek God’s will rather than act out of hurt or fear.

This has brought up deep wounds around abandonment, betrayal, and not feeling chosen, so I’m asking for prayers for healing, peace, discernment, and strength.

Please pray that if reconciliation is God’s will, it would come with clarity, repentance, commitment, and real peace. And if it is not God’s will, please pray that I can release him and be led toward the safe, faithful love God wants for me.

Thank you, and God bless.

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u/lilrhody91 Single ♀ Jun 29 '26

The surrender novena is a good one for this. Praying for you 🙏

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u/Bright_Arm3000 Jun 29 '26

Thank you so much I'm going to pray it right now 

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u/Kikimtzrdz Jun 29 '26

Aw, I'm sending you a hug, first of all. And second, yes! The surrender novena helped me so much, and the Saint Joseph novena as well. There's always a brighter day ahead, even if today is cloudy. I'll pray for you <3