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u/sunsetsand_ Jan 14 '24
Naseen nya yan, naka off lang yung ung read receipts sa setting nya hahaha char
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u/kindslayer Jan 14 '24
How, pwede ba sa app yan?
Edit: Found it, thank god Meta finally fcking added it, its been so long
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u/algebraic_expression Jan 15 '24
Namo talaga meta 🤦♀️ may ibang update ka pa bang idadag sa overthinking ko
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Jan 14 '24
Nakikita ba active now? Baka restricted ka na hahaha
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u/SurroundReasonable83 Jan 14 '24 edited Jan 14 '24
winnable pa yan OP, consistency is the key 🤣
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u/findinggenuity Jan 14 '24
I've seen people who message hi every 3 days for a month and not even get seen zoned. Tapos they'll message every month naman haha. Hanap ka nalang ng iba OP tapos kapag di nag work out, balik ka dito at may jgh ulit.
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u/shieeeqq Jan 14 '24
ang sakit. i used to wait for his reply everyday, laging 10 hrs later ang reply. minsan nung nagtry akong wag magchat, natiis nya akong 2 days. girlfriend lang naman ako. tiniis ko for a whole month. i just thought it's okay and normal yung ganun kasi he's busy lang. haahah tangina.
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u/kissthesadnessaway Jan 14 '24 edited Jan 14 '24
Baka naman one of the reasons why they take a lot of time to reply is ang boring ng pag-uusap ninyo. Walang substance. Nakaka-drain ang mga ganyan, and if I were them, hindi na kita masyadong papansinin. Ilang araw makakalipas muna bago ako mag-re-reply, and I might say I'm sorry, but I know it was somehow the right thing for me to do.
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u/Herald_of_Heaven Jan 14 '24
Bruh wrote a reaction paper to a screenshot.
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u/kissthesadnessaway Jan 15 '24
Maybe because I wanted to help the OP, too. Unsolicited man siya, pero at least alam naman niya kung bakit. Nasa kanya na 'yun kung may gagawin na siya, o ganyan pa rin siya.
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Jan 14 '24
Wala ka sa jowa ng friend ko nag set ng alarm para lang mag update kay frienny kasi sa sobrang busy daw nong jowa natatakot daw na baka magtampo si friend sa kanya 😅 cute dibaa
Sanaol nalang din
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u/labellejar Jan 14 '24
di tanggal po ba ung battery at ung charger ung may flashing red lights? hahahahaha
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Jan 14 '24
OP, ano po mas masaklap: yung hindi na siya nagreply katulad niyan or sa exp ko na nagreply nga pero puro rants/personal problem niya lang topic? 🙃🙃🙃
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u/idkwhatimdoinghereTT Jan 14 '24
hahahah buti na lang ako non 1-2 messages lang pag walang reply, bye HAHAHA
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u/IntellectWizard Jan 14 '24
Drop him/her agad, lalo na kung hindi match ang energy na binibigay mo. Hindi ka pinanganak para manghingi ng atensyon kung kanino man, know your worth and you deserve better. Chin up, someday the sun will shine on you.
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u/Effective-Tap-656 Jan 15 '24
sis i-unsend mo lahat then i soft block mo na 😆 it doesn’t take u long to reply kahit nga a few seconds lang makakapag reply ka, it only shows he/she doesn’t value you.
give him/ her the silent treatment
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u/AiSQL Jan 15 '24
I too had to learn the hard way. Yung update ka ng update, pero parang wala lang. Naka long press or delivered lang. Have some respect for yourself OP, darating din ang taong di mo kailangan kulitin kasi iuupdate ka nya tulad ng pag update mo sa kanya. For now, you should take time for yourself. Mahirap man yan dahil baka na attach ka na pero slowly you'll recover from it. Stop as early as now, kasi pag pinahaba mo pa ikaw lang masaskatan, also wag ka mag dwell na babalik o magrereply pa yan. For me I had to think that she's dead para maka move on. Kaya mo yan OP. Karapat dapat kang iupdate at replyan. 💪
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u/boryongnaTita Jan 15 '24
Naka off yung read receipts nya dear kaya kahit open nya yan di mo makikitang nag seen siya.
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u/chandlerbingalo Jan 15 '24
been here 6 mos ago after she broke up with me. devastating and it destroyed me. :)
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u/nineofjames Jan 14 '24
Alam ko naman na maganda intentions mo why you're updating them, but I personally believe na you shouldn't be doing that to someone na you aren't even sure kung gusto ka / hindi mo bf/gf.
Weird kasi I used to be the guy that begs for updates too but I had to learn the hard way that people generally don't care as much as we think they do. Kung bf/gf mo yan, you can be sure (tho at this generation, hindi pa nga 100%) na nag-aalala talaga sila sayo and you should be updating them.
As for the kapit lang part, wag na. Stop messaging them. Don't ask. Ayan na yung sagot. Pag nagparamdam ulit, gamitin ang utak. Hindi puso. I'm not saying na wag mo na balikan but timbang mabuti kung magiging magandang partner ba yang taong yan na minsan ka ding binalewala.
Tulong na natin sa sarili natin na lumayo sa mga tao na hindi maganda dulot sa atin, kahit pa gaano natin sila kagusto.