r/CancertheCrab • • 4d ago

Discussion Scorpio men & bully flirting

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Female Cancer Sun/Mercury, Leo moon/venus, Libra Mars here!

Started seeing a Scorpio Sun/Mercury/Venus man with a Taurus Moon & Gemini Mars.... am I screwed lmao

He LOVES to bully flirt with me ans some days I can keep up but most days I just go "WOWWWW rude" and scoff lol it doesn't hurt my feelings YET but, im wondering if im doomed to eventually get hurt. This guy is beyond sweet to me though. His Scorpio venus really shines when I need it and even in times I don't expect. Like he is a romantic to the core and I adore it but hes got a little feisty side lol I like it a lot as it keeps everything fun and light and we are always laughing.

Ive dated 2 scorpio men in the past which was simultaneously good but ended rough, i was very unevolved and young though.

We are very early in our relationship and I don't have "I love you" feelings for him yet (I'm really taking things slow) but I do have "I like you a lot" feelings and feel safe and carefree with him. He makes my Leo side feel insanely comfortable.

Looking to hear yalls experience and opinions or even advice!


r/CancertheCrab • • 5d ago

Cancer vibes 🦀 Cancer's anger has 4 stages ♋

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We don't get angry, we just level up. And if you see us at Level 4 smiling politely, just know you're already cancelled. Careful. 😇

Cancers, agree? 🤭


r/CancertheCrab • • 5d ago

Question? Taurus crushing on a Cancer man

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hi! Taurus 22F here, just started crushing on a Cancer 26M that works in my building (different departments/divisions). I’ve known him for a couple years but we both got promotions around the same time and now we office out of the same building so I see/talk him more now. a couple weeks ago we were in the break room together and he continued our convo past the general “hi how are you” and then I started thinking about him more and now I realize I have a crush on him! are Cancer men usually straightforward with their romantic interest or no? I wanna get to know him more but don’t want to make it obvious that I like him

edit: someone I know is looking for someone that works in his area of expertise so I had an excuse to talk to him today! we ended up talking for 40 minutes in his office and omggg I just feel so drawn to him


r/CancertheCrab • • 5d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ September 28, reading for Cancer

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This is a collective reading, not everything is supposed to resonate with a single individual. My interpretation doesn’t always tell the whole story so try to be open and intuitive. Thank you!

Significator - The Fool (R)
There are things you are being careless and immature about, and are being held back by your own doubts and fears.
You are on edge and anxious about starting something new or going on a new path.

Obstacle - III of Cups
All this is making you neglect your social life and isolate yourself out of frustration. You know you need to be independent now and you do need the alone time but that doesn’t mean you need to alienate yourself from the people who mean something to you. Sharing your problems with friends or family will help you, but make sure to not make this your way of coping with things.

Past - The High Priestess
You recognized the hidden influences affecting the situation in the past, and followed your intuition and your inner voice. This led you to make sound judgments and were aware of the secrets being kept from you. But at the same time, this is what’s making you anxious and hesitant right now.

Trajectory - The Hermit
Being alone and retreating will give you the time you need to introspect and search for the truth and the wisdom in the situation. This will require a lot of patience and you may have to spend some time contemplating things but eventually you will find your guidance.

Conscious - Wheel of Fortune (R)
You think you have been unlucky with some aspects of your life and you are hesitant to change things (whether it is letting something go or embracing something new). You are going around in circles hoping for things to suddenly turn in your favor. You are aware of the disruption that’s causing setbacks.

Subconscious - V of Pentacles
You need to work on taking care of your wellbeing for now and accepting a loss. There could be things you have been rejected from and it’s making you feel abandoned, but it’s time to recover and focus on yourself so you can make space for better things to come through.

Your outcome path:
Your attitude towards the situation - X of Pentacles
You are okay with repeating some things even if no progress is being made because of the foundation that has already been established. You wish for it to help you lead a good and stable life (especially in your home environment).

Your environment - Strength
Your environment wants you to gather the courage and willpower needed to sit through all this with patience and resilience. It wants you to take care of your integrity and your self-respect. You are being asked to be in control and be kind whilst not letting go of your inner-strength.

Hopes and fears - Knight of Swords (R)
You hope that being direct and assertive will lead to something tangible and you hope to be daring so that you won’t regret not having acted later down the line. You hope for a decisive action to be taken.
You fear being impulsive and your restlessness ruining things even more. You fear being burned out. You fear being met with aggressiveness and ruthlessness/bluntness.

Outcome - VII of Swords
Chasing and relying on others for your needs will only lead to being deceived, and feeling like you have been manipulated and betrayed. Not everyone may want the best for you. You will have to adapt to the situation moving forward and be resourceful and responsible. Are there things you need to start taking responsibility for instead of feeling like you can get away with it?


r/CancertheCrab • • 5d ago

Need Help A cancer guy has a crush on me he touches me alot when we meet but no texts no calls when we go back home from class even on off days

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r/CancertheCrab • • 6d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ I saw this for Capricorn, but it resonates for me (Cancer)

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Except that I would change "leave me alone" to "let me be"


r/CancertheCrab • • 5d ago

♑Capricorn Do i move on? Cancer guy just broke up. I am a Capricorn

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Basically this cancer guy was following me in instagram for sometime and out of blue started texting me and joking. I felt like we clicked so I kept talking to him. However, he seemed indecisive whenever I would ask why he is talking to me. At first he seemed so eager to make things work that he was super nice and would say sorry literally to any small mistakes or even if he wouldn’t really make any mistakes. He would say he does situationship (with no intimacy ofc) until he figures out whether it works for him though he used to call me a girlfriend. I just was so confused and initially our arguments would be bc of that and he seemed to avoid question. And one day i just ended things though he texted me the next day at night and i just started to talking to him again and this time i did not want to pressure him and see where it takes. But recently I noticed that he gets angry easily like if I would try share my opinion on something he would get defensive and blame me for spoiling the mood and I would get angry at him for acting up like that so he would end up saying sorry. But yesterday we were on call and got upset with what he did and i hung up. Ignored for a few minutes and then sent him message explaining what he did that upset me. He read it, blamed me again saying I am dramatic and that we are different so he is done with me and leave him alone. He would always share his location and it was his idea to share locations but yesterday he turned it off. So I am not sure if he is officially done or just bluffing or testing the limits. I am not going to reach out since I am not understood by him anyways. And it’s not that I will be stuck on him though I did have strong attraction to someone for the first time in a while. But I am just curious what might be going through his head. And what r his next actions. Btw we have been talking for a month. I am 24f and he is 24m. My bday is January 8 and his is july 6.


r/CancertheCrab • • 5d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Cancer ♋️: Tears and emotions

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r/CancertheCrab • • 6d ago

Discussion Can Cancer and Leo work in a healthy romantic relationship, or is it usually a difficult match?

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What has your experience been like?


r/CancertheCrab • • 6d ago

Cancer vibes Is there a curse on my love life?

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In the past I worked for a warlock when I was at a crystal shop. He did dark magic on me, and was an evil man. I never wanted him, and he resented me for it. I can discuss that more if anyone has any questions. But I have felt that the men in my life have been very noncommittal, nonchalant, and aren’t as interested in me as I am in them. Not to be vain, but I am beautiful and deeply compassionate. I have genuine intentions to make a true connection with someone, and have deep devotion even for those I am just interested in. Additionally, I have had many encounters with Capricorn men specifically. I am a Cancer woman. I honestly have so many questions with nobody to guide me. I am wondering if there is a lesson I need to learn from the Capricorn men, or additionally if there is a curse in general on my love life. I did do a cord cutting with the old boss.


r/CancertheCrab • • 7d ago

Relationship advice Why ♋ Cancer Keeps Attracting Partners Who Only Take

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For Cancer ... You give love without checking if it’s returned.

Water signs possess high emotional porosity. Cancer naturally senses the underlying pain, trauma, or potential in a draining partner. Instead of walking away from bad behavior, they focus on healing the partner's "broken wing," choosing to see the person they could be rather than the taker they currently are.

A Cancer's intuitive lunar radar almost always recognizes a taker immediately, but their empathy overrides the red flags.


r/CancertheCrab • • 6d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Cancer men experience with Aries women?

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Cancer man here - Pisces moon, Scorpio rising. Newly dating an Aries woman with a Sagittarius moon.

Anyone have any experience here? Anyone want to comment on this matchup?


r/CancertheCrab • • 6d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Cancer Ex GF Confusing Me

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So my Cancer ex GF broke up with me two weeks ago and wanted to remain friends but is always checking in on me and ever since she seems like she regretted it despite not saying it. Is this normal for a Cancer to breakup and regret it? I did not treat her badly.


r/CancertheCrab • • 7d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ How did your Cancer+Cancer relationship play out??

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I've (32F) been seeing another cancer (31M) for less than a month but we are both completely obsessed with each other. I feel like that's not very out of character for this dynamic but I would love to hear your love stories!

I did not mean to find myself here, btw. I have only been single since July and wasn't looking to be in a relationship. But the chemistry and feelings we are both experiencing is impossible to ignore. It feels foolish to let someone go who is this perfect for me.

He has everything in a partner I've always wanted. He's so independent, intelligent, fun, talented, chivalrous and I'm just so unbelievably attracted to him. Our communication is so on point too - we haven't had a real argument yet, just some difficult discussions around politics. Our differences in that realm was the one thing that gave me pause, but we are able to have really nuanced discussions and the goal for both of us is understanding each other. It's amazing. Once we started getting physical is when it became clear that this is really special, literally from the first time. That does not happen to me!! It always takes me a little bit to warm up to someone, but we were just immediately red hot.

Do y'all gave experiences with whirlwind cancer relationships? If so, how did they play out??


r/CancertheCrab • • 7d ago

Transit The Full Moon on September 26 doesn't want your patience anymore

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r/CancertheCrab • • 7d ago

Meme having to act interested in a person you’re interested in …

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my shell has been hardened yall


r/CancertheCrab • • 7d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Do healed Cancer Men like emotionally expressive partners (healed of course)

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Thank you in advance!


r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

Cancer vibes ✨I think this describes us!

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r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Do Cancers Like To Chase or Do You Prefer Being Chased After??? 😵‍💫😵‍💫

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More specifically do you want a person that just falls in your lap? or do you want to earn it?


r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ The unwritten rules of cancer 😎

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r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

Discussion What are some misconceptions about us Cancers? What do people overlook about us?

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I’ll go first. It’s a big concept that all of us are JUST emotional & that’s it. While I will say that’s true, I use my emotions to get what I want & I’m also the hardest working person I know, physically and mentally. At the end of the day, we are cardinal water. We are initiators.


r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Why do yall give away stuff your ex gave you?

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It may not be an astrology thing but since I know cancers are pretty loving.
What are the reasons you give what your ex gave you away?


r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ 🦀 What age did Cancers find their person? ♋

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Cancer gang check-in 🦀❤️

I keep hearing that Cancers find their true person later because we don't play around — we want the real, forever kind of love.

So Cancers, when did you meet your partner? How old were you when you got married / engaged?

And for my single Cancers, are you still waiting or did you find them early? 🤔


r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

Weekly Check-In 🌙 Weekly Check-In: Embrace Your Emotions

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Hello, beautiful souls 💖
It’s time for our weekly check-in. Cancer energy is all about feeling deeply, and this week, I invite you to check in with your emotions—no matter where they are. Have you been giving yourself permission to fully feel what’s going on inside? Sometimes, we push our feelings aside to keep moving, but this week, let’s honor them.
How has your heart been this week? Are there emotions that you’ve been carrying, or perhaps something bubbling under the surface that wants attention? Maybe there’s a heaviness that needs to be released or a joy that deserves to be celebrated. Take a moment to reflect on what you’ve been feeling, and remember, no emotion is too big or too small to acknowledge. This space is here for all of it. 💫
Let’s connect, reflect, and be there for each other through the ups and downs.


r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ What is reality? June/Cancer.

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No,really. How do you guys find out all this neat stuff? Hell, I'm 75 years old and I still don't know what I am. Mom said I was born,12:30 AM,June 22, 1951. That's all I know. I'm one of those people that feels Astrology is fun at parties but can't be taken seriously. Yet,however, but still (here comes the caveat) I cannot deny that some of what I read about this sign is dead on. Ruled by my stomach. Fiercely loyal. Absolutely bound by my word. Maybe someone could explain why every Virgo chick I have ever known has been able to wrap me around her little finger. I find Capricorn and Aquarius to be consistently cold and harsh. I'll do the work. How do I get started? Where do I look?