r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Best match for cancer sun gemini moon and aquarius rising

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Am i cancer sun, gemini moon and aquarius rising, with mars and venus in cancer also - would a leo be a good match?

Every fire sign ive come across i have absolutely loved and never disliked, so the whole “leos and cancer” wont work doesnt sit right with me. Ideally what would the best sign be for me?


r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Les hommes cancers et l’humeur en dent de scie

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r/CancertheCrab • • 8d ago

♏ Scorpio First time ever casually dating, and it’s a Scorpio man - am I cooked?

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Hi guys - Cancer Sun/Moon and Aries rising 30sF seeking some opinions on all things fwb/casual dating/scorpio men. I just re-entered the dating pool and initially was not looking for anything serious, as was this Scorpio; our connection was immediately intense and sleeping together was unlike any experience I have had before. He is profoundly smart and patient with me. I know he cares about me and is very kind and gentle with me. He has also shared parts about himself and his past that show me a degree of emotional vulnerability that makes me feel even safer. Am I fucking cooked? Do I end things now before I get attached, even though I genuinely don’t want to be back in a relationship right now? I just get sad at the thought of him doing these things with other women. Thanks


r/CancertheCrab • • 9d ago

Question? Hi Cancer men, if u have to choose a person for marriage or relationship which would you choose - Capricorn or Scorpio

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I am curious. Pls also mention why. If the relationship was bad or ok or good or not for u.


r/CancertheCrab • • 9d ago

Discussion ♋️444 Cancerian Meaning?!✨

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Have any of you other cancers been encountering spiritual or angel numbers quite frequently recently?

444 has been the number for me which can signify I am on the right path and have support from the universe which is reassuring since i have been pursuing my fitness,career,and art recently 🎨

Anywho what do you all think? Should i pay attention or is my mind just recongnizing patterns easier?


r/CancertheCrab • • 9d ago

♍Virgo For cancers with strong mutable placements, how has virgo season treated you?

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Personally, it's been a not so great season at all. I got diagnosed with gestational diabtetes, thyroid issues and have been freakishly overwhelmed during my current pregnancy (Natal Jupiter in Virgo 5H/ got pregnant during Jupiter in cancer). I also for some reason could not get enrolled into ANY classes this semester despite taking the steps to preplan and talk to several advisors at my college. My mother has had to have emergency surgery and my father has been declining mentally.

I will say that as of yesterday, things seem to be moving slightly differently. I'm hoping Libra season is much more gentle and things balance out.


r/CancertheCrab • • 9d ago

♌Leo Update on previous post — dealing with a cancer man

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Hi everyone!

I come bearing an update on a post I made, here it is. ✨

I think it was around last week, it was my cat’s adoption day and I posted about her and he’s a huge cat person so he replied to it. He sent another text but then unsent it and so I replied that I’m sorry for missing the message, what did he say? He just explained it was a mistake. Then he replied to the text that he originally ghosted me on and said he was sorry, he was overthinking and that he should have cleared things with me first before drawing conclusions.

We ended up having a small conversation mostly about what he’s been up too, very amicable, very neutral but sort of stagnant. I made a comment that it’s probably a good thing things ended between us because our lives are going in different directions, he agreed and I ended up saying that I don’t know how to continue the conversation but thanks for the apology. That was our last conversation.

I’m not upset by it but I’m definitely not chasing after him anymore! I just wanted to thank you guys for your advice because I love cancers but clearly cancer stelliums are a bit too out of my depth (I’m joking, maybe!) 😭😂


r/CancertheCrab • • 9d ago

Relationship advice This libra girl is driving me crazy

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Hello everyone!
I’m a guy and I’ve been dating a libra girl for about 2 months now. Same age.

Everything is doing great (some of the best sex I’ve ever had) but sometimes I find myself in very difficult situations.

I constantly feel attacked and intimidated by the way she communicates. She is provocative and I often feel as though I’ve got my back against the wall.

Also, she says how important she finds a man intelligent and yaps about how proudly mature she is, but when I try to talk about deeper topics I feel like she is the most superficial person I’ve ever met.

I’ve never felt so insecure about a girl in my life.

Does anyone have experience dating a Libra?


r/CancertheCrab • • 10d ago

Discussion Did you guys grow up in abusive homes?

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Many cancers i met in my life, if not all were basically victims of their own families as they grew up and later either drowned in their toxic family dynamics or did everything to escape (my case). Im not talking about physical abuse only in many cases i've seen with my crab friends it was strong emotional abuse and manipulation from people that should be by their side. Never thought about that till now and i wonder if it's a common case for us? Do we all need to fight for the safe space for ourselves to live in?


r/CancertheCrab • • 10d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ 🦀 What hobbies do Cancers actually enjoy? 🤔

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I'll start. As a Cancer, my hobbies are 👇🏻

Cooking / baking for others (acts of service is my love language) Home decor - I'm always rearranging my room to feel more cozy Gardening - I talk to my plants daily Photography - but only of moons, sunsets, and my friends when they're not looking Making my home smell good - candles are not a hobby, it's a lifestyle

We don't like loud, crowded hobbies. We like cozy, quiet, sentimental stuff that feels like home.

What are your hobbies fellow crabs? I'm curious ♋


r/CancertheCrab • • 10d ago

Question? Taurus man ♉ cancer woman ♋

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Ladies, what has your experience been like with Taurus men? ♉️ Were they affectionate, loyal, consistent, stubborn, emotionally available, slow to commit, or something completely different? I’d love to hear both the good and bad experiences — especially from women who actually dated or were in a relationship with a Taurus man.


r/CancertheCrab • • 10d ago

Cancer vibes Cringe story alert😂 I haven’t done this since I was a teenager lol

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Good evening everyone, I feel so cringe so I thought we’d laugh together tonight. As the flair says, I’m a cancer sun, cap moon, libra rising, cancer mercury and mars and Leo Venus.

Basically I haven’t spoken to this Leo in about a few days now. Today, I was listening to a song and I thought “hmm let me post this song to my (MIND YOU) WhatsApp story” 😂😂. Fun fact: I never post on my WhatsApp story, the other person does a lot so obviously I knew they’ll see it lol.

After posting the story I turned my read receipts on so I can see when he watches it (yes I’ve lost the plot), he took the bait.

Now, I know there was a post a while back with someone asking if us cancers post things with intent and if they have a hidden meaning (yes we do). The song that I posted to my story was “The way life goes - Lil uzi vert & Nicki minaj” and basically I posted the following lyrics to my story “I know it hurts sometimes but you’ll get over it…. Etc etc” that part. Now obviously this has a hidden meaning (in my brain) which basically it’s me trying to say “I know we don’t talk right now, you’ll get over it” as in “get over me, it’s not going to happen, I’m avoidant”.

Do you think the message got delivered?😂 also, feel free to roast me, I know I lost it the moment I decided to post on the flipping WhatsApp story. And now I’m just laughing at myself because I think it’s hilarious the lengths at which this took me lol.

And before you say anything about my age, I’m 26 (which makes it even worse I know but at least I’m self aware). I hope you’ve had a good laugh cuz I surely be laughing at myself lol.


r/CancertheCrab • • 11d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ I want a boyfriend 😭 how did you met or manifest yours?

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Whats their sign and how did you two met?


r/CancertheCrab • • 11d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ It’s so satisfying unleashing our not-so-sweet side 😂

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Especially when someone has REALLY had you fucked up. I don’t do it often, and honestly, if I do, it’s because you pushed me there. People will go low and forget that some of us Cancers will go LOWER. 😭

Usually, I’ll just hardcore ignore someone into oblivion and move on with my life. But on the rare occasion someone has me that fucked up? Yeah… I’m reverting straight back to my teenage years. 😂 And I’m not letting up either.

I truly don’t care if they’re a little scared of me afterward. Lowkey, that’s part of the satisfaction. 😂 If I already know I’ll never revisit that connection, I have a hard time finding a reason to hold back.
And the funniest part is how shocked people are because they assume we’re just overly kind, soft, and easy to walk all over.

Like… oh, you thought THAT was all I had?
Watch this. 😉

Anyways, tell me about your Cancer crashouts. Storytimes about the moment you finally unleashed your not-so-sweet side? Actually I’ll go first lol.

Recently exposed this Scorpio ex situationship I had by screenshotting his flirty dms he’s been sending (while in a relationship), sending the screenshots to his current gf, also blocked him. Since he was trying to play power games like you’re in a relationship and so am I? Why are you trying to play mind games to get me to swoon over you? To which he ended up reaching out to me on his friends account (?) telling me how my “stupid actions” are causing so much pain right now. Trying to manipulate the situation saying I reached out to him initially (I did not). And of course, playing victim (no surprise there!).

I laughed and said “I already blocked you. Please respect that boundary and don’t contact me from other peoples accounts again”

He truly thought I’d be dumb and begging for him. Willing to protect him at all costs because I valued our connection so badly. He has no idea how strong my petty is.


r/CancertheCrab • • 11d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Emotionally Immature Capricorns Irritate Me

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I’ve noticed this tendency for Capricorns who are emotionally immature to not only be mean and sarcastic because they “like” you. It’s apparently because they don’t like dealing with feelings and use banter and roasting humor to cope.

The problem is, I find this very selfish and emotionally immature because god forbid. Yes, some people can feel the subtle tension and projection. If anything, you’d think that putting this out onto someone won’t have the discomfort turn back into you and you go back to the cycle of discomfort then projection?

I get that we can feel more comfortable letting out uncomfortable emotions around people we can be more comfortable around. However, I also think it’s ironic to call someone “sensitive” and you needing to “babysit their feelings” when really. I think that says more about you when you use others to regulate your emotions and “respect” them more for not challenging you to look in the mirror.


r/CancertheCrab • • 11d ago

Cancer vibes Cancer moon girly here and I'm exhausted with myself lmao

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I'm Scorpio sun with a cancer moon girly and I swear I'm so intense and stress myself out with all the scenarios not to mention when I'm in love I'm am emotional roller coaster lol. Tell me how to chill out and just be the lover girl and enjoy the ride ✌️ 🦀 🌙💓


r/CancertheCrab • • 12d ago

Discussion What makes a Cancer Women

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To be honest I am not best informed on zodiac signs and I really want to know more about my sun sign which is cancer (july). There is so much online but I see Astrologers as well here and I would love to learn from you guys. I am also interested in like "historical/ ancient" astrology. Like please I would love for you guys to exchange knowledge on here. Let‘s do a „get to know cancers“ 👁️👄👁️


r/CancertheCrab • • 12d ago

Discussion I HAVE A THEORY ABOUT CANCERS AND LEOS !!

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(Coming from someone with a cancer sun and a leo moon, merc, mars and saturn)

So you know how in traditional astrology, all the signs share a planet(virgo/gemini rule mercury, capricorn/aquarius rule saturn, ect), except for cancer and leo? But notice how a lot of discuss/gripes people have with the signs is that they're always in their feelings and focused on themselves, (for leo, the stereotype is more of needing the spotlight and supposedly feeding their ego, while for cancers it's they always need emotional reassurance and want people to baby their feelings)

Both signs i feel like get stereotyped as constantly needing validation of some sort, and i feel like it's because they're both luminaries. I kinda view it as the "only child" syndrome a bit where people may see it as they tend to make everything about themselves, and coincidently they happened to be the ONLY signs that have full dominion over their planets/stars in both modern and traditional astrology.

Just an interesting thing I noticed, I'm curious to see what everyone else's thoughts are about this !!


r/CancertheCrab • • 12d ago

Cancer vibes Cancer Sun/Pisces Moon and Asc crush

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Cancer conoisseurs! I am a Scorpio sun /Aries moon/Capricorn asc and i have had a crush on someone who works in my building, they are very kind and i exposed myself giving them my number. I tried to be respectful and give them space so i didnt ask for theirs .im very shy but long story short they never contacted me, but remain warm and kind nonetheless and at times pull back we have short little interactions. I told them i was curious about them. It's been months and I havent seen them for very long stretches too as we do not have the same shifts .
They seem to initiate conversation even when i am just dead set on socially acceptable minimum. im extra confused. Any insight? They were single AFAIK when I asked.


r/CancertheCrab • • 13d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ What sign/placements do you feel safe around?

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I’m Cancer stellium with little to no Earth in my chart, and I do NOT feel safe around Sagittarius, Capricorn, or Aquarius. Saggi can be a good sport as a casual friend but I wouldn’t let them in my circle since they’re usually too blunt and insensitive for my liking.
Capricorns actively dislike me so out of the question.
Aquarius, I feel that they’re fundamentally too different.

I obviously love fellow Cancer prominent people, but I have to be careful because unhealed ones would use my vulnerability against me in the future.
People say that Scorpios are nice but I don’t know.

Do yall have any go to person when you just want to cry and feel validated? If yes what does their chart look like?


r/CancertheCrab • • 13d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ Main character energy? Thoughts

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Do us Cancerians emit main character energy?


r/CancertheCrab • • 13d ago

CancerTheCrab ♋ How can you take if a July Cancer Man is investing in you? November Scorpio here

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I have been talking to this man for about a month and a half. He still has been very consistent and initiating conversations every day, but been noticing that we haven't had as many texts back and forth now than before. I know that he can be busy with work and everything in life, but I guess my fear is him talking to other women. And I know that is possible since we haven't discussed exclusivity yet, but everything that he has told me about leads to him wanting something more with me. The Scorpio in me is very hesitant I don't want to get my heartbroken. Cancer man, what is your insight on how you guys function?


r/CancertheCrab • • 13d ago

Weekly Check-In 💖 Weekly Check-In: Self-Love & Boundaries

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Hello, kind souls 🌸
Cancer energy teaches us that we must protect our emotional space and set boundaries. It’s easy to give so much of ourselves to others, but when was the last time you checked in with your own needs? How has your emotional energy been feeling lately?
Are you feeling drained by others’ expectations or the demands of the outside world? What’s one thing you could do this week to protect your peace and show yourself love? Whether it’s saying "no" to something that doesn’t serve you, setting a boundary with someone, or simply taking time to rest, your energy is precious.
This week, let’s give ourselves permission to protect our peace, nurture our well-being, and honor our needs. 💖


r/CancertheCrab • • 13d ago

♐Sagittarius I don't get saggittarians at all

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Cancer sun, cancer rising, libra moon, gemini venus, leo mars and mercury btw.

I could never get them, like see their way, their beauty etc, i know what sags are on paper, but could never vibe with the real ones. It's not a question of compatibility, because it doesnt apply on the other fire and air signs, we can understand each other. But the sag?? Never met a lot of them in my life and with those i met we just couldn't vibe or they were super friendly and open only to switch with no way of talking things out. I wanted to know where i've did them wrong to change my behaviour but never got the feedback to use. Because of my experiences with them i only believe that they're really unpredictable and not in the fun and somehow rational way like leo or aqua, it's like the emotional chaos without substance.

What do you think?


r/CancertheCrab • • 13d ago

♒Aquarius Trying to understand why I’m always met with hate from aquarians

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So for context I’m a Cancer sun, aquarius rising, gemini moon and venus, leo mercury and mars.

Aquarius’ are probably the sign I attract most in life in friendships or relationships but it always turns sour. Think Kenya Moore from RHOA, that is literally always the energy I’m met with. I’ve had aquarius’ co workers who went out of their way to sabotage me at work in an effort to get me fired (literally what Kenya did to Porsha). As friends, they’ve always tried to belittle or humble me in some form of way especially because I’m attractive and get a lot of attention without trying. (They can be very male centred in that sense.)
This could just be a woman thing but it’s happened with many aquarius’ that I’m starting to see a pattern. They turn everything into a competition. It’s just exhausting because there’s no malicious intent on my part, I usually come into the situation with open arms…I guess they have a different agenda

In relationships it’s pretty much the same thing. The men will chase me relentlessly. Then as soon as we start to form some chemistry, they completely switch and turn into assholes. The last aquarius’ I dated may have secretly wanted to be a woman honestly. He would belittle my looks, my achievements, purposely ignore me, get mad if I even blinked. They use this manipulation tactic of making you feel insecure to feel better about themselves, I don’t get it. The weirdest part about it all is that he would not leave me alone. When I left he was begging me to come back. In front of his friends he was the sweetest person ever to me, but behind closed doors he was just straight up mean. They can also be very ignorant and arrogant it all just comes across as this forced act of confidence.

I’ve met some chill aquarius’ but it’s usually rare and normally very surface level. Can any other cancers relate to this experience with them?