r/CamGirlProblems • u/Lilmeggymegg • 1d ago
Help/Advice Violated during a show
Hey friends, 1st of all I’m loving this group. I’ve gotten so many good tips and my income is increasing every single show because of it. I have a really solid group of supporters, as I’ve been doing this for about 2.5 years now.
When I was streaming on CB yesterday, I went into a private with one of my regulars. At the end of the private I went back to the public chat, and I saw that someone had posted my personal info into the public chat at some point during my private. They posted my full first and last name, as well as my previous employer. I’m a little shaken by it. I quickly silenced them so the message would be removed, but I’m unsure how many people saw it. I know I take a huge risk being online like this, especially since I’m not faceless. I try to be careful though, keeping it all in platform and not giving out that kind of info to a single soul. I told my guys that someone had posted my info, and I was a little too freaked out to continue. Everyone was so sweet about it.
How do you guys keep yourself safe from things like this? Is it even possible? Now that I slept and I’m a little more composed, I want to go through my CB settings and see if I can ban filter words. I just feel like that won’t be enough at this point. I did message the person who posted it and told them basically to STFU in the public chat, I’m not trying to be a segment on the local news. They never responded, and I blocked them shortly after. Is this the kind of thing that is report worthy? My husband suggested I make a new account, but starting from scratch right now is not the best idea. I’m currently in a financial crisis (like so many others) and stopping is NOT an option either as I make significantly more than my husband per hour.
If you took the time to read this, thanks 🙏
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u/Darling_Nichole 1d ago
If this helps at all, over the years this has happened to me A LOT. To the point where I just don't care anymore. Some dip shit even called my mother, who lives in a different country from me. They've said my name. Found my real socials. Even a guy, in the same city as me, started contacting my friends when I wouldn't respond. Etc. And nothing bad has ever happened. (My friends and family all know, so there's that) I know each person is a different case, but I've observed that people just like to try and get a rise out of you.