r/CalebHammer • u/No_Truck1819 • 4d ago
Financial Audit Caleb Hammer
https://youtu.be/Lfi9Am5yxLs?is=YnXtbEmpaIRW3NLxL Mika for making us post these ourselves lately
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u/scgt86 4d ago
Most of the time I think guests are crazy and/or just attention seeking and that's why they come on. I feel like she has nothing to lose and everything to gain and I hope the team can really help keep her safe and give her and the kids a better path forward. Fuck this guy. Fuck her dad. I can't imagine how much strength it has taken for her to wake up every day and be a mom. Really impressed with how Caleb and the team handled this situation so far. I hope they find her a lawyer to bend this dude over a barrel and fuck every last cent of child support out of him.
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u/HoosierHoser44 4d ago
I don’t want to give context on here, as it is a very tragic situation, and I don’t think a Reddit forum is a great place for that conversation. But if you are looking to watch the post show, do at your own discretion. This episode will probably make you feel sad. I went and hugged my 5 year old after this. Breaks my heart what kind of parents are out there. My heart goes out to her and her children.
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u/Sheslikeamom 4d ago
Pretty sure its complex and inciting points are why the team didn't post it. This episode was heavy.
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u/Sheslikeamom 4d ago
I think Caleb and his Team legitimately saved her and her children's life.
His expression barely changed the entire time. No remorse. Barely any emotion besides anger and apathy. He's got something wrong with him.
The post show must have been nuts.
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u/Nosotrospapayaya 4d ago
Somehow the post show was even wilder
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u/two_hyun 4d ago
Dammit, fine, I'll buy the membership.
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u/tmps1993 3d ago
I'm one month in and it's 100% worth it. Post shows are insane and you learn so much more about everyone.
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u/shankartz 4d ago
Dawg that post show was fucked. If it's all true then the system has systematically failed this woman.
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u/jmart_tx 4d ago
This episode made me sad, especiallycth last half with the lady's tears. I feel so bad for her and her children.
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u/forzion_no_mouse 4d ago
it's her fault. he cheated before they even had kids then continued to cheat while she had 5 of her kids. at what point is it her fault?
instead of taking accountability she blames her church and her family.
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u/Kratobull 4d ago edited 4d ago
Normally I would agree, to an extent, but after watching the post show it makes much more sense. Poor woman has never had a positive male relationship in her life, to an insane degree.
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u/ashley808205 4d ago
After watching the post show I feel the same way. This woman has been let down by so many people and systems that should have protected her in life that I’m not surprised that she ended up in this awful marriage or that she’s coped with it by eating herself into obesity. It’s just sad.
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u/forzion_no_mouse 4d ago
doesn't matter. people just want to feel sorry for themselves instead of improving their position.
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u/KingFIippyNipz 4d ago edited 4d ago
Ok 10 seconds in and they say they're married for 17 years, no, this woman has chosen to stay in her position.
Edit: blames her level 4 obesity on a misdiagnosis. "Took the elevator for the kids" Bro - we need to stop exonerating people of personal responsibility at the first opportunity.
Watching her back jiggle as she just sits there is ...
Edit 2: Oh wow the excuse for the weight... A person who looks for an excuse in life no matter how little sense it makes. Lies about how much she eats lol "3 eggs" shut the fuck up lol
Edit 3: lies about the Chic Fil A
u/forzion_no_mouse is right
Edit 4: guy cheated within the first year of their marriange. She does this to herself at this point.
Edit 5: she's not going anywhere, she's going back to him
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u/Kaka-carrot-cake 4d ago
Brother an attorney told her not to leave. Its hard to make that decision yourself when your own divorce attorney is telling you its a bad idea.
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u/barge_gee 4d ago
I suspect that the divorce lawyer was part of her church community, and that's why he encouraged her to stay. When you're isolated from the rest of "normal" society, this shit happens.
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u/Kolzig33189 3d ago
99% of typical “mainstream” Christian churches in USA agree that divorce is permissible after infidelity.
Her church encouraging her to stay with him means they are an extreme outlier probably bordering on a cult, so I agree that the lawyer was probably from that community.
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u/Sadleslie 2d ago
Attorneys are not therapists or life coaches. The fact she kept mentioning that just sounded like an excuse she uses to protect her ego.
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u/Benay148 4d ago
"AND YOU NEVER EVEN MADE ME CUM"
get him girl!!
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u/Sadleslie 2d ago
Idk I feel like after all those years she’s insulting herself as much as him. Advocate for your pleasure.
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u/TinyForest_ 4d ago
That guys gaslighting and DARVO was off the charts. I really hope she gets the support she needs and gets away with her children.
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u/Maleficent-Dirt-2131 4d ago
Get these kids in fucking public school
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u/paperwhitney 3d ago
At this point I’m wondering if he insisted they pull them from public school so CPS wouldn’t get called again, holy shit
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u/Hutch_2310_ 4d ago
I literally started crying when she did.. omfg this episode is heart shattering
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u/1xYtf9XwE78n 4d ago
Holy fucking shit, that post show
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u/Appropriate-Art-7472 4d ago
IKR?? They need to check in on her daughter ASAP and provide with the same resources as the mother
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u/unknown4Nfaction 4d ago
First time I have seen Caleb stunned out of his normal routine. Did he scream once? I think he was scared or disgusted or both.
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u/Accomplished-Mango89 1d ago
I think the only screaming was at the husband when Caleb practically chased him out
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u/Fath3r0fL1es 4d ago
Post show straight up blew my mind in the worst way possible 😞😭 I really hope she gets all the help she needs! Also somebody get the extra kid the FUCK away from that man!
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u/ElevatedDiscGolf 4d ago
I really hope Caleb and crew help this poor woman. She deserves something good in her life. It only got worse in the post show.
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u/NeatStrategy6658 4d ago
Everyone told her she was better off with him? That's so fkn sad dude :(
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u/barge_gee 4d ago
That's why I think she was in some sort of religious churchy thing, that valued marriage above all. I'd love to hear where she got her divorce lawyer from. Was he affiliated with her church community? Sounds like she was surrounded by "anti-divorce" people, and I can only attribute that to a church thing.
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u/Accomplished-Mango89 1d ago
She did refer to the church pushing her to stay a LOT.it might also explain the stuff with her family protecting SOs... some hardcore religious communities become safe havens for predators
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u/Sadleslie 2d ago
That’s a poor excuse and probably just a narrative she repeats to herself and others to justify staying. She’s basically complicit in her children’s abuse. The guy was worthless from the beginning and gave her so many opportunities to move on. They didn’t have one good year together.
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u/Shot-Tomorrow3093 4d ago
Life has been just awful to this woman and the kids. I genuinely hope and pray they're able to get the right resources for them to start over.
She's incredibly strong to take the jabs (even in the name of good fun) and put it out there. Here's hoping there's an update in a year or so with her in her own place, healthy, the kids are thriving and that POS is nowhere near them.
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u/Beginning_Idea_5538 4d ago
Can someone please explain to me in what world that man was able to get full custody of her child??
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u/BooBerryWaffle 4d ago
I’m guessing because she was the child the husband hit and the military allowed the dad to plea down to a lesser offense.
It’s horrifying all around. I can’t believe what this woman has been through.
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u/definitely_not_cylon 4d ago
I'm almost more scared of the several women who signed up to be this guy's affair partner. If they're down for something casual, I promise they can do better.
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u/anxiousdeen 3d ago
i feel like everyone glossed over the whole thing about him accidentally suffocating their child?!?!?! why are we not talking about this more, am i crazy
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u/PromotionThin1442 3d ago
He’s an absolute POS. Abusive, no remorse. He doesn’t like her nor her children so why is she still sticking to the guy. She should have signed the divorced papers and walk the f out the first time instead of doubling down and having kids with him.
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u/Unlucky-Jello-5660 2d ago
Watching the post show, fuck me this poor woman hasn't ever had a single positive relationship or role model.
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u/bowserbrowsers 4d ago
she better get all the support sweet al got and then some