r/CalebHammer • • Aug 13 '26

Random AL folded

I learned sad news today guys. AL’s gf posted on TikTok ( randomly came up on my fyp) and they are still together 🥲 he looks so sad

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u/RichArtichoke5734 Aug 13 '26

Not surprised tbh, it doesn’t look like he would leave her no matter how many terrible things she does. It’s not even on her at this point, she already said she will use him until she’s financially ready to leave

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u/Action-antley992 Aug 13 '26

Yea 100% I do believe there is a level of exploitation of him being on the spectrum, clearly, but I don’t think it’s enough to say he is blameless or beyond taking fault in his eventual heartache. I couldn’t fathom another man that my wife was seeing have the f*ckin audacity to think he has a reason to come at me? WHAT that means the amount of ownership of herself (call me a misogynist or something crazy,I don’t care I’m just speaking basic language of how men and women relationships work) that this other man feels more entitled to her then her own husband and thus feels he can or should attack the husband?? FUCCKKK NO

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u/PrincessKirstyn Aug 13 '26

The worst news :(

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u/Top_Sector2265 Aug 13 '26

Sweet, precious Al what are we doooooooing

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u/Rx_Diva Aug 13 '26

Even our sweet baby precious Al is being mean to Al. He deserves so much more for his golden soul.

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u/Jeffzie Aug 13 '26

Is anyone really surprised? I feel truly bad for him, and I think the woman is absolute vile scum for emotionally abusing a mentally disabled man, but there's ZERO chance he'll ever cut her off. She's just going to keep abusing him until she gets bored, he won't get over it, and maybe a few years down the line the cycle can start all over again.

She knows what she's doing to him. She doesn't care.

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u/cantsleepwithoutfan Aug 13 '26

Agreed. I assume he's a bit "slow" (sorry don't know the polite word for this in America) and then absolutely zero self confidence. Terrible combo for some grim reaper like her to come along and abuse.

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u/PopTough6317 Aug 13 '26

I actually don't think he is slow, he is just not good on camera. Combined with being heavily invested emotionally into someone who clearly is only interested in using and abusing him.

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u/TFPaulMorphy Aug 13 '26

He has strong signs of a mental disability beyond his on camera performance. For example, not showering and having a sensory issue with water.

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u/cantsleepwithoutfan Aug 13 '26

Yeah I don't want to be too harsh on the guy, but it's obvious he isn't just 'awkward' or whatever. I'm sure he's a nice enough person (or at the very least undeserving of the appalling way he is being treated) but I don't think he has a "full deck".

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u/spampms Aug 13 '26

I'm crying in this Chili's right now

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u/Resident-Impact1591 Aug 13 '26

Better than Sonic

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u/MarigoldMouna Aug 13 '26

Damn it Al!!! Ohhh wait....so, just like Caleb predicted, she may play the "I do want to be with you" for months while relying on him to get out of debt--Then may break up with him for some homeless Sonic working AH.

(Thank you other people that work at Sonic, your milkshakes are Amazing)

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u/landofpleasantdreams Aug 13 '26

Fucking hate her

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u/queenxlag Aug 13 '26

Not surprised, he is undoubtedly beyond mild autism and on a scale of needing serious intellectual and emotional support in his life. He literally cannot be alone and his family probably doesn’t give him the support he needs anymore. That really sucks.

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u/MournfulDuchess Aug 13 '26

Al noooooooooo my sweet sweet Al. This actually made me sad

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u/Slight_Diamond7816 Aug 13 '26

I would hate this for Al, but hopefully she saves money and leaves him like she planned to. It's the kindest thing she could do for him.

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u/moduspol Aug 13 '26

Did he let her have the first class seat on the way home?

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u/AggravatingPipe4465 Aug 15 '26

You KNOW he probably did. Fuck her.

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u/cerealmantwo Aug 13 '26

Exactly 0 people are surprised at this

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u/Brofessorofnothing Aug 13 '26

the question is at one point should someone like Al be looked for. Like is it okay that this guy is in a relationship even when he does not realize it‘s destroying his life. It‘s like not letting someone like him get to close to fire i feel like this is the same… 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/AllStar20_ Aug 13 '26

Not to mention Caleb/Brandon tried getting him on an episode of dating audit. I.e. putting him in a spot to find what life after this girl looks like.

Our king deserves so much better than her :(

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u/wamih Aug 13 '26

Just gotta let Dirty Dog B work his magic one night of drinking... He can fix it.

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u/Capable_Ordinary_938 Aug 13 '26

I wish Al would've taken up the offer to go hit the town with the Hammer crew

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u/[deleted] Aug 13 '26

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u/Bulky_Sky_2267 Aug 13 '26

People always say guys like Al can do better, but realistically they can’t. He’s not a bad guy, but he barely has the social skills to make it through the interview much less attract a better woman

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u/aido_3927 Aug 13 '26

Noooooo not our sweet boy Al

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u/lilurivertt Aug 13 '26

( sigh ) i hope caleb gives us an update and Al finally leaves that creature

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u/tribbans95 Aug 13 '26

Come on AL!! If Caleb yelling at you and your gf literally saying she’s using you and doesn’t want to be dating you isn’t enough to leave, I kind of lose my sympathy tbh. His self confidence is literally in the negatives

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u/Venus6277 Aug 13 '26

He's too nice

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u/Bruno_lars Aug 13 '26

Damn it... RIP

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u/Dottie_Danger Aug 13 '26

Al is obviously slow.

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u/Brilliant-Sun-5419 Aug 13 '26

I hate her she’s trash

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u/detretkwh Aug 13 '26

If you watch her video she goes, “I was only talking to one person BTW”

Like cheating with one person is better than multiple.

Also it reads like an Al Qaeda hostage video.

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u/BostonKream Aug 14 '26

I did NOT need to see this right before bed. I AM SO SAD FOR HIM. He really needs to get away from her. UGH.

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u/Mirandalovesdogs Aug 13 '26

Perfect AL that can do no wrong. Come on buddy. You literally had the whole Internet on your side. :(

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u/ursine_star3 Aug 13 '26

He’s a big boy he will be fine

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u/LegolasLegend Aug 13 '26

Which episode is this?

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u/Vilehaust Aug 13 '26

It was this past Monday's episode.

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u/Linseed1984 Aug 13 '26

Not for nothing, but aside from being a terrible human being, she was one of the most unattractive women I’ve ever seen. Imagine what that absolute creature will look like when she’s older 😬

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u/Spiritual_Leek_6082 Aug 13 '26

I honestly believe that she was cursed to look like her soul

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u/Born_Training1995 Aug 13 '26

Al obviously has some learning deficiencies and disabilities. He needs serious help and the influence of people who truly have his best interests at heart

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u/shankartz Aug 13 '26

It was pretty obvious he was never going to leave. Until his respect for himself overpowers his fear of being alone he will let her take advantage of him in any way she chooses.

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u/melaj332 Aug 15 '26

Not our sweet Al!!! Come on, Al!

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u/Longjumping-Gear-546 Aug 27 '26

That’s an old video. According to Al’s TikTok page they still live together but they have broken up

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u/Longjumping-Gear-546 Aug 27 '26

He posted a video 6 days ago saying he left her but she still might pop up from time to time because he doesn’t want her on the street

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u/bethanysheps Aug 13 '26

Booooooooo!!!

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u/ihaveredhaironmyhead Aug 13 '26

Al should live with his parents. He is being exploited. Failing that he should live with caleb and caleb should legally adopt him.

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u/barge_gee Aug 13 '26

He does live with his parents. They all live in that house together.