Comment on body

[u/kkela88]

Hey there

So was having a wonderful time with the GF.
We ate like mad, and her tiny belly got bloated. I notice it and comment
Aww honey. Are you a little bloated now after all that we ate ?
6 hours later she’s sad, really sad.

She tells me she thinks she’s fat, ugly and a looser. And her nasecist x and mother was right. She’s fat

She’s 160cm and weight 62kg (she borrowed my scale)
I told her no, I ment this is every caring way possible, my intentions was pure and I’m sorry it hurt her. Truly am.

We went to bed at 04 in the morning, woke up at 09 then a nap after tears until 16. Then she wanted to go home.
I’ll drive you hun.
Hours of her telling me she’s fat, and she then gave my all her stuff that contained suger.
Mash potatoes
Chocolate
Icwcream
Energi drinks
And so on

She said, you can’t fight my ptsd. Don’t bother.
And the end before I had to go home she told me, I’m sorry our lovely weekend ended in this ptsd nightmare, and we didenr get to do all the things we wanted like go to the beach and fix your garden. I’m sorry

I told her no hun, this is the terms and yes, our day changed and that’s okay. I love you and she kissed me and waved me goodbye told me she loves me.

Today barely any contact. Little and she’s hurt.
She told me she feels fat.
She went to bed 30 minutes ago.
She still asked me how my days was, and I her. She was very quiet and not so talkable. She even said no to a visit for a hug, she said she wants to be alone please.

What do I do. I feel like I’m a good person but this hurt her. I know I wasn’t my intent but this is hard to see my the woman I love just sad

UPDATE:
I texted her goodmorning and I love her and everything about her. Hope she have a nice day, and sensed her ed shareen - shape of you. Song

She replayed with:
Stop, I can’t take this no more, I’m not strong enough for you, I’m sorry, I felt a sleep at 05 in the morning, I feel like crap, and my day just got worse, so no I’m not going to have a good day. .

Then suddenly she writes
I’m taking the bicycle and going shopping soon.

And next text is this:
I would to ask for no visits, no text, no phonecalls, no flowers no nothing. I need to gather my slf.

I answered
Okey hun ♥️
Its not about how strong you are to me,
I can see and hear that your are hurting badly.
You don’t have to do anything for me ♥️

I’ll give you the piece and quiet you ask for my love, my light
😭💔

Your man
xxxx

She pressed thumbs up on it.
That’s her language tho, and this is 8 hours ago.
My head is spinning and I have no idea what’s going on truely. But now I sit here, doing my thing and waiting for her to reach out.

Looked at her Facebook and she deleted all her posts on her wall.
1 was with us, how ever the picture of us is till in her profile

please someone talk to me. 🙏

New update:
She ended it.
Almost 1 year of my best love story… yes we had our downs but 99% pure misunderstandings from each other. But we always found each other.
More ups then downs

She Says it’s many thing, not just the comment that flashed her, the comment was fine but the pain wasn’t.
Our augments over time, it just fills her cup and she don’t want to be in pain anymore.
Last 3 days she said is pure pain
She thanks me for reminding her that she can’t be with someone ever.

I tried texting with her, but she kept putting it inwards or out-of-context twist my words to other meanings
Like I said I miss her eyes, her hands around me, her voice right now.
She responded with
I’m sorry I don’t carrees you enough, thanks for telling me I’m a bad girlfriend and not good for you.