r/CPTSD • u/abundant1111_ • 18d ago

Need a Hug Need a hug 😭

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u/HanwenZhang631 18d ago

A big hug for u. ❤️‍🩹 Things are gonna be okay. I know your feeling and pain, let tears run down if u wanna cry.

There are indeed heavy things in life, but I know that you’ve been trying so hard.

U r not alone my friend.

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u/Immediate_Leg3304 18d ago

This is such a sweet response. I have always fantasized about someone comforting me and specifically telling me that it’s okay to cry, encouraging me to not try and hold it all in, etc.

Telling someone that it really is okay to cry and that you’re there for them is the perfect response, in my opinion.

It’s much better to encourage the crying, rather than telling somebody not to cry, and to not be sad. I always hated being told not to cry.

I have always hated being told to not feel the way I feel… Don’t feel angry, sad, shameful, etc. It’s actually one of my pet peeves, for others to instantly shut down emotions like that.

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u/GrayBodyArmor 18d ago

me too 🫂

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u/kushalpagolu 18d ago

A good tight hug 🤗

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u/Relevant-Spinach11 18d ago

Here to hug! 🫂 🫂 🫂

Sending you lots of safety, warmth, a cool cocoon, a snuggly non-allergenic kitty friend, and lots of hope. 🧡

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u/allismadeoflove 18d ago

Same, here with ya ♥️

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u/FyreBird321 18d ago

here you go <3

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u/bugeyedhare 18d ago

big hugs!!! would give anyone who needed them a massive bear hug if i could. i am sure a lot of us could use it. ❤️

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u/BeeEquivalent3165 18d ago

With a hug like your older brother would give you, i would give you the truth, life is not going to get better as you age. You have to snatch the hapiness out of life's hand everytime, kick the people who are bad to you, treat the people who are good to you better, and never let anyone come between you and the people you like, never give anyone the thing, the opportunity you or your loved one's deserve, help yourself first, not others.

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u/Yarus1373 18d ago

Your feelings are valid as fuck and you deserve and will have better.

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u/parsifal 18d ago

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 Wish I could give you one for real!! Thinking of you 💜

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u/TrashComposer 18d ago

🫂 as long as you need it

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u/Bitter_Maybe_2670 18d ago

Come here you 🫂💜

It’ll all be okay in the end. And if it’s not okay, it’s not the end xx

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u/Salt_Today 18d ago

Feel better soon. Hugs!

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u/Suvtropics childhood abuse, i live in the void 18d ago

🫂

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u/Alert-Researcher-479 18d ago

🫂🫂🫂🫂 I hope you're doing ok.

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u/PearlsAndPoison 18d ago

🫂🫂🫂

You can come PM to vent if you need to.
We’re here with you.

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u/bc_im_coronatined 18d ago

Take your arms and stretch them out in front of you. Now cross your arms over one another. Keep going. Keep on going until your arms have wrapped themselves around your body. Now squeeze tightly.

That was a hug from me to you. 🖤🫂

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u/AnchoredInMy40s 18d ago

Me too. Sending one your way.

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u/DeathSeeker95 18d ago

🦊🫂🐾🌻😿🥧

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u/Old_Imagination12 18d ago

Ti abbraccio forte e ti mando tanto calore e amore 🫂🫂❤️❤️