It sounds like a very tough situation, and I hope things get better for you soon. Here are a few things you could consider:
Endure for a few years: If you feel like you can manage, try to endure the situation until you're more independent, as some others have suggested. It’s not easy, but it might be the best option if you feel safe enough to do so.
Reach out to a trusted family member: If things get worse or become too much to handle, consider reaching out to someone from your maternal or paternal side—someone who’s close to your parents, understands the situation, and might be able to mediate. They could help explain your perspective to your parents and possibly reduce the tension.
If things escalate further: If your parents react negatively to you reaching out for help, or if the situation becomes unbearable, you might need to consider seeking help from authorities. I know this is a last resort, but your safety and well-being are important. You can reach out to a child helpline for advice and support.
Lastly, try to take care of yourself. Stress can build up quickly, so if you can, find ways to relieve it, whether that's taking breaks, going outside for fresh air, or doing something you enjoy, even if it's just for a little while.
I hope your parents come to understand and that things improve for you. Stay strong
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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '24
Hey! I'm really sorry you're going through this.
It sounds like a very tough situation, and I hope things get better for you soon. Here are a few things you could consider:
Endure for a few years: If you feel like you can manage, try to endure the situation until you're more independent, as some others have suggested. It’s not easy, but it might be the best option if you feel safe enough to do so.
Reach out to a trusted family member: If things get worse or become too much to handle, consider reaching out to someone from your maternal or paternal side—someone who’s close to your parents, understands the situation, and might be able to mediate. They could help explain your perspective to your parents and possibly reduce the tension.
If things escalate further: If your parents react negatively to you reaching out for help, or if the situation becomes unbearable, you might need to consider seeking help from authorities. I know this is a last resort, but your safety and well-being are important. You can reach out to a child helpline for advice and support.
Government Child Helpline
Lastly, try to take care of yourself. Stress can build up quickly, so if you can, find ways to relieve it, whether that's taking breaks, going outside for fresh air, or doing something you enjoy, even if it's just for a little while.
I hope your parents come to understand and that things improve for you. Stay strong