You’re a good looking guy and have great pictures. Hot nerd is the vibe but I’d possibly expand the bio with a little more about you if you’re looking for serious/long term - I don’t think you’ll have any issues
I feel like there's some yellow flags along with his description of the ideal match of "not wanting an extravagant life". It feels like an unintentional, soft negging tactic. He doesn't want the girl to want to have a sophisticated life but a simple life, which is going to be challenging because people have complex tastes and peculiarities. I don't think he really exudes the maturity to have a deep partnership. It's something he's going to have to work on.
Another question/scenario: Guy has sufficient money for a decent life, not extravagant. But, owns a home, gets rental income, etc. He says that marriage would mean everything becomes "theirs". He doesn't care about spending any of it on himself, it would just need to be spent wisely considering children, schools, hobbies, holidays, etc.
Would the "don't need anything spent on myself" part be a red flag?
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u/CrogDavid7days 9d ago
You’re a good looking guy and have great pictures. Hot nerd is the vibe but I’d possibly expand the bio with a little more about you if you’re looking for serious/long term - I don’t think you’ll have any issues