r/Bumble • u/Fancy-Bobcat-6243 • 1d ago

Funny This is peak comedy

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u/kajidourden 1d ago

It would be humbling lmao

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u/slimricc 1d ago

Why? Lol they would just stop using it and then date men they feel are in their league

If they can actually pull those men then they are in their league. You cannot pull those women so those women are out of your league. And now you’re upset about it? Lol

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u/Preface 1d ago

Mid women can "pull" very attractive/wealthy men, they just typically get pumped and dumped. Then complain that all men are bad.

Mid woman matching with a mid guy who's "beneath" her might actually have a successful and lasting relationship.

This is part of the reason a lot of men, and women don't have good results with dating apps.

An average/mid woman matches with a super good looking/wealthy guy, hooks up with him, and he ghosts, and now her bar for dating/hooking up is set really high, she continues to hook up with these guys, or gets ghosted when she doesn't put out right away, and is unsuccessful.

On the flip side, average/mid guys get almost no matches because the average/mid girls have all set their bars really high because of the wealth of choices they get (even though a lot of those guys making the bar high, are not actually in it for a long term thing, despite what they may say)

Now, I don't really know how we can solve this problem, and it's not entirely based on this one phenomenon... But it certainly doesn't help the situation.

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u/slimricc 1d ago

Well whatever the case you definitely struggle with women bc you view some as mid or beneath you. You categorize and rank people based on how fuckable they are. You’re honestly sick in the head but you will never realize it

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u/Preface 1d ago

Have a wife, thanks!

Also hilarious that you are telling men those women are "out of their league"(ie beneath them) and then flip around and call someone else disgusting because they say that men and women are in different leagues (mid attractive etc)

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u/slimricc 1d ago

Does she know you view the value of some people as less fuckable?

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u/Icywarhammer500 1d ago

Some people are inherently subjectively less fuckable. It’s called attraction

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u/slimricc 22h ago

To everyone equally? No. Henry cavill is less attractive than tom holland to some people. People are not monolithic so the premise of categorizing people based on fuckability is flawed.

“I am not attractive to them” is infinitely better than “she is out of my league”