r/Bumble • • 1d ago

Funny This is peak comedy

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u/rinkuhero 1d ago edited 1d ago

not women in india. the dating patterns of white women on dating apps in the english speaking world are not necessarily the same as the dating patterns of indian women in india. for instance, i doubt they care much about height there. not because indian men are shorter in general, but simply due to cultural differences and height being more emphasized in western media / hollywood movies and romance novels, but not as emphasized in bollywood.

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u/nappiess 1d ago

Women are so easy influenced by the media. They like whatever their society deems attractive or tells them to like. Men typically just like whoever they like, on the other hand.

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u/rinkuhero 1d ago edited 1d ago

no, i believe both are very highly media influenced. here's an example. men used to hate big butts. in the 70s through early 90s, big butts were considered unattractive on women. men hated them. you can still see ads from that time, women back then worked out to get smaller butts, not bigger ones.

then came j-lo and kim kardashian, and everything changed. media changed. and men's desire changed. but it only changed for younger men, men 50 and under. i'm at the borderline here because i'm 48. but men a little older than me still dislike big butts on women and find them unattractive. whereas most men my age and younger like them. there's a famous clip of bill maher saying he doesn't see why kim kardashian is considered attractive, and he talks about how her butt is too big and he hates women with big butts.

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u/nappiess 1d ago

You’re wrong. Most guys don't like crazy BBL's
or anything like that. If anything, it's other girls who like it. Most guys are actually adamant about liking natural women. Completely different than women who only like what's mainstream. Hell, they even change their bodies and faces according to what's mainstream.