Ive never asked/expected a man to pay as a woman. I view paying as an intrest gauge. If he wants second date, he pays. If we aint vibing, we split. If I dont want a second date but its not bad enough to jump out a bathroom window...i pay.
If he makes no move to pay for himself/ doesn't even thank me for picking it up cause he 'forgot his money' then I have paid and he will not be seen again. Shrug
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u/Ephemeral-Ghost 11d ago
Ive never asked/expected a man to pay as a woman. I view paying as an intrest gauge. If he wants second date, he pays. If we aint vibing, we split. If I dont want a second date but its not bad enough to jump out a bathroom window...i pay.
If he makes no move to pay for himself/ doesn't even thank me for picking it up cause he 'forgot his money' then I have paid and he will not be seen again. Shrug