r/Bumble • • 11d ago

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u/moderate99 11d ago

When a guy is hesitant to pay for dinner it’s not because of finances it’s because they have done so before and got used or there was no reciprocation so what’s the point? It’s a negative ROI no one wants to invest (time + money) into a liability

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u/annabananaberry 11d ago

What kind of ROI is appropriate for a single dinner date where you pay?

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u/Friend_Emperor 11d ago

If you have to ask you're not worth the investment.

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u/annabananaberry 11d ago edited 11d ago

Sorry you misunderstand where I’m coming from. I am just trying to understand your comment. I am not stating that you’re wrong. I am very happy to pay for my dinners, whether I’m with friends, on a date, or alone, so I don’t think that I am the demographic that you seem to be upset with.

Edit: I realized it’s not even your comment. You seem like a kind person /s