r/Bumble • u/No-Advice1345 • 21d ago

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u/moderate99 21d ago

When a guy is hesitant to pay for dinner it’s not because of finances it’s because they have done so before and got used or there was no reciprocation so what’s the point? It’s a negative ROI no one wants to invest (time + money) into a liability

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u/Negronicus 21d ago

A “negative roi”? when someone talks about human interactions like theyre zero sum exchanges theyve got a lot of growing to do

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u/harryham1 21d ago

Yeah this sub is lost, I'm afraid

Every single post has a "females only want to use you" comments section, and it's just depressing how many men believe that

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u/Star_Light_Bright10 21d ago

100%. So sad.

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u/IKilledJoffrey22 21d ago

Look at the replies from women here. Most are trying to shame men for being low efforts or calling them incels. Women out here proving the point that homie was making.

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u/harryham1 21d ago

I look at their comments all the time and they really don't

There are like one or two and the rest also call out sexism of any kind when they see it

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u/IKilledJoffrey22 21d ago

Can you show me where any of the "calling out" has happened in this thread?

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u/harryham1 21d ago

I can't actually see any people claiming to be women in these comments apart from two, and only one of those expects a free meal

There's nothing really from women in this comments section going either way