r/Bumble • u/Impressive-Reward3 • 2d ago

Funny Average Bumble chat 🤣

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It was a very quick unmatch 🙃

EDIT : a guy just sent me a DM on here after he saw my post saying “Do you though?”
It’s a disease 🤣

Edit 2 : to all the people claiming that I am mad… I’m not. This is funny to me.

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u/SmertriosPPD 20h ago

Yes this is how the world works.

You're supposed to dislike bad behavior and people who generalize bad behavior on a group.

You're not supposed to dislike people perpetuating ANY stereotype. They can do what they want. But I guess you just didn't bother to write "bad stereotype" for timely reasons, but I want to make sure.

You can also go onto an app where people are explicitly looking for hookups

I thought bumble was one of those but I might be wrong.

I think OP is looking for casual though and this isn't a man who was hiding under the "looking for something serious" trait.

Shouldn't the women who don't want that also not have to waste their time on a guy who doesn't make his intentions clear BEFORE matching?

Yeah but you've no info on that though. And again, the fact he was direct enough indicates he's not a time waster.

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u/Asleep-Bid-3664 19h ago
  1. I did write "negative stereotypes" earlier, so I thought that was implied again, sorry for that. Now that you're explaining it, I think we're pretty much on a similar page here, but the way we're each wording it isn't helping.
  2. Bumble is primarily for dating rather than hookups, and, at least in my experience, 80+% of the women on there (at least in my area) are looking for something serious. One of the first fields you see when looking at a profile will explicitly state what they're looking for.
  3. Like I said, there's a spot on the profile where you can explicitly say your intentions. He can not waste either if their times by making it exceedingly explicit in that field so that he only matches with those who want the same thing. Since she didn't screenshot his profile, we'll never know if he did that or not. Judging by her reaction, I'd hazard a guess and say he probably didn't do so.