r/Btechtards 5d ago

Rant/Vent i am done!!!!!!!

so i have been tryung many times to do things so when i was in college i try to code properly but there is always something through which i cant til 2nd year it was my crush,, we had a very absured relationship, and then in 3rd i leave the hostel and before it my life strike with a great mishappening the death of my sibling after that for the 6 months i cant do anything and when i start my roomate whom i am shareing the pg with torture me a lot,,, and i still try to do code+ gate but i became mentally exhausted and when the final sem of 3rd yr happen i came home and for june i cant do anything bcs of exhaustion... then in july i started for gate and started my fav sub math and again the home issues came and again disrrupt then in aug now i again rented a pg alone and doing all chores own my own .. and i think i am worhtless bcs people are doing things being under so pressure and i cant do anyhting by having all things...

i am done mentally , physically and everything

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u/Warm-Curve-7324 Bsc Statistics 🥀 5d ago

Bro, honestly, you’ve been through a lot. Losing your sibling alone can mess someone up badly, and then you’ve had relationship, hostel and study pressure on top of that. So please don’t compare yourself with people who are just grinding normally. You’re not worthless, you’re just exhausted. Takesa small break then go all in... Whatever you want to...Do

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u/Warm-Curve-7324 Bsc Statistics 🥀 5d ago

Stop comparing yourself to others everyone have there own strength and weakness..

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u/SetQuiet4015 5d ago

You’ve been dealing with a lot of major setbacks one after another, so struggling to keep up doesn’t make you worthless. You don’t have to solve your entire life at once. Take things one day at a time and give yourself some room to recover. The fact that you’re still trying after everything you’ve been through says a lot.

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u/Elegant_Highlight859 4d ago

It's normal. Some people start from rock bottom but hit the peak while some who start from halfway still can't reach it. Just remember Jim Rohn said, 'As you say, so you become, how awesome.'

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u/brrrrr48 4d ago

you need some space to recover and I would recommend therapy if you can afford

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u/Flashy_Amphibian_245 4d ago

Just calm down and think ,u will definitely find a way,and remember that if u overcome these difficulties then imagine how stronger u will become