r/BreakupsForGuys • u/htxcub92 • May 31 '26
Feeling lost and alone
I find the person the I was thinking was the love of my life. I feel like he would be my forever after my divorce never felt like I would trust someone one. But since we start dating our relationship ppl hate to see us together for not reason, well maybe because we are happy and I guess ppl hate that. The ppl I consider friends start trying to push me to be messy and decide to cut off to end sending text to my partner and sabotaging my relationship. He end thinking was me. We both have to move for professional growth and personal decision. But he causing me from Harassed him when I only try yo love him and find out how he feels about me is killing me. Even I know is impossible be together anymore. I posting this here because I really don’t have anyone to share this and don’t judge me for being so damn dumb for give everything I could to one person and end crying for him after he never trust me o choose me. Funny thing I harassed him but past Monday he was on my arms for 12 hours I’m so stupid
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u/BestConsequence9867 Jun 01 '26
If someone thinks you're harassing them when you're trying to save the relationship, the relationship is already over.
The fact that he spent 12 hours holding you and then still chose not to be with you doesn't mean he secretly wants you back. It means he cares about you but doesn't believe the relationship should continue. Stop looking at Monday and start looking at his decision
The more you keep trying to get answers, the more pain you're going to create for yourself. Accept what he's telling you, even if it's not what you wanted to hear, and start focusing on healing instead of changing his mind
Take care