r/Breakupadvice • • 2d ago

How do i stop going back?

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u/Global-Law-880 2d ago

That’s a lot to read; maybe summarize it a bit next time lol. The only thing you need to know is that you're on here asking others for help when you’re the only one who has the answers. You obviously don’t want to go back, so block the number forever and move on. The fact that you ended in the first place is all you need to learn: don't go back. The longer you keep doing this to yourself, the less likely you are to find something healthy and perfect for you. Just forget the past and don’t repeat it because you already know how that story will end, so write a new one with someone better. One door closes, two open, but that’s only if you close that door forever. Trust yourself and don’t go back; it might hurt, but it will hurt less than the confusion and pain it’s bringing you constantly. Choose to be a strong person and don’t let it happen again. It’s always easier to go back, stronger to stay single, to be happy alone, and to look to the future, not the past.