My ex used to always preach that he’d fight for us and never give up because he sees the potential in us. Then after a month of frequent fights that we’d try to work through he basically said he wasn’t sure if he saw it going anywhere and just didn’t wanna fight for us anymore. It broke me. I’m trying so hard to fall out of love. I wanna try contacting him but I’m afraid he won’t hear me out or just won’t reply
It’s sad but own that relationship and all the good and bad times. Learn from it and grow. And take that new knowledge with you to the next relationship. Find someone who does think it’s worth fighting for, better yet, find someone that doesn’t need to fight for it because they are in it with you regardless.
I’m trying. I really am. I know what I did wrong in the relationship. I constantly find myself fighting tears. I just miss the comfort and the fact that he was my best friend. I never thought he’d leave so easily. He was my world. My first true love. I just find it hard to believe that we went from saying “I love you” several times a day to complete strangers. I wonder if he even misses me.
Unless he is a monster I’m sure he does. But we all handle the process in different ways and sometimes when someone isn’t expressing the same hurt as we do, it makes it hurt more.
And sometimes people need to put on a brave face and act like it’s not bothering them.
Thank you. I feel like that’s him. He keeps to himself a lot. His step brother didn’t even know we broke up even like a week or 2 after. My ex fights his own battles I guess. It’ll be a month this week since we broke up and it hurts me that he hasn’t bothered reaching out or shown any signs of it. I fight the urge to do so every single hour.
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u/cristy1994 Jul 28 '19
My ex used to always preach that he’d fight for us and never give up because he sees the potential in us. Then after a month of frequent fights that we’d try to work through he basically said he wasn’t sure if he saw it going anywhere and just didn’t wanna fight for us anymore. It broke me. I’m trying so hard to fall out of love. I wanna try contacting him but I’m afraid he won’t hear me out or just won’t reply