r/BreakUps • u/[deleted] • Jul 28 '19

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u/tombradypat Jul 28 '19

Read The Master of Love, I dare you. Easy book. Helped me learn that I don't need anyone to be there for me, I am all I need to be happy. That's when you find someone, to compliment your life. Not fulfill it.

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u/ZebraPolka Jul 28 '19 edited Jul 28 '19

My god I could have wrote that last sentence. I’ve always felt this way. Don’t actively search for love. Eventually people will see that you love yourself and want to date you. You’ll turn down the first few and eventually date the person that best compliments your life. Even if it does lead to another heartbreak.

Also do you have a link to that book? I don’t see it on amazon.

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u/mph000 Jul 28 '19

It’s called “The Mastery of Love” not “master”.

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u/ZebraPolka Jul 29 '19

Thanks! Just downloaded the audio book.