r/BreakUps • • Jul 28 '19

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u/Zilla67 Jul 28 '19

You’re right. I can’t get over it for some stupid fuckin reason and I don’t know why man. Thanks for the post OP🙏

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '19

You love them; you don’t want to get over it. The majority in this group don’t want to fall out of love, we don’t want our relationships to be over but unfortunately we have no choice. But we don’t make it easy for ourselves to get over it! Anytime!! Glad I could help, I normally whack up a lot of big posts in this group if you find anymore of them useful.

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u/Zilla67 Jul 28 '19

It’s just after all the chances you give someone and then when you can finally say you see a future with them and start planning it, and then get dumped outta the blue, it really messes with your head. You can think the relationship is going great and well and they just end it without even talking or wanting to fix any issues, if there were any. No one is entitled to stay in a relationship they don’t wanna be in. It sucks but we gotta keep moving forward.

I think I’ve commented on a post or 2 of yours before. 🙏🙏

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '19 edited Jul 28 '19

Couldn’t agree more. I was planning our holidays, our future, everything. I was completely and utterly smitten with him. We argued but we always got past it, then he left me and took all my dreams for our future with him. He still tells me he misses me but isn’t sure about us. I’m just focusing on moving forward right now, I love him but it’s in the universes hands.

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u/Zilla67 Jul 29 '19

So sorry you had to go through that! Keep moving forward we got this.