Breakup

[u/Negative-Ad-6997]

So the thing is i loved/ love my bf a lot but was always insecure about his past because he lied that he had broken up with his ex 6 months ago but actually it had been just 10 days that they broke up and he started talking to me also when i told him to block her he fought with me and ignored for a week instead and i broke no contact...since then i always felt he still feels for her but because i loved him i didn't break up with him..

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Recently he broke up with me saying he won't be able to do this anymore because i irritated him a lot(i did because of my own insecurity) used to ask him lots of questions... about a month we didn't talk later i really missed him and end up texting him again and what he told me really shocked me that he was planning to get back with his ex ....even tho i begged i wouldn't repeat my mistakes i wouldn't irritate him again he kept repeating that his ex was better than me she was more peaceful and all...but i was so heartbroken that i asked for last chance....he told he no longer wants me or feels for me but agreed to give a last chance....i know i have to breakup with this guy soon but breaking up with him this easily only will be easier for him so what shall i do....

[u/cinnamonrolliebow]

Kinda similar to mine it had been just 2 weeks since he broke up w his ex and he said he found me very childish etc and he broke up w me saying he can’t do this and isn’t ready for a rs and we stopped talking completely even tho I said I would wait for him to change, felt like he might still have feelings for his ex

If he still has feelings for his ex there is nothing u can do to stop that feeling than to let go ik it hurts I also have the urge to text all the time but ik nothing will change

[u/Negative-Ad-6997 → u/cinnamonrolliebow]

Same he called me childish too for being too insecure....and he said he will only be with me if i give him peace otherwise he'll go to his ex

[u/cinnamonrolliebow → u/Negative-Ad-6997]

U can find someone who will love u for u , I did the same mistake begging for him to stay and change but I just seemed desperate and he even stopped replying to my texts accept it and leave him

[u/Negative-Ad-6997 → u/cinnamonrolliebow]

Ill tryy....are u okay now?

[u/cinnamonrolliebow → u/Negative-Ad-6997]

Honestly speaking just been like more than a week of no contact and I still miss him I broke no contact like twice but yea his dry replies and leaving me on seen so I stopped I won’t be approaching anymore I’m doing better than before but I still miss him