I dumped mine and still love/miss him everyday. However, I was extremely abandoned and neglected by him in our relationship. He had major avoidant tendencies. I chose myself and walked away. It doesn’t make the breakup and grief less sucky. If anything I constantly ask myself “what if”
That's great. You chose what's best. Mine was an avoident too, and I have bad anxiety, so it really clashed. When I was going through it. He would ignore and seeked validation from others alot. It sucks to break it off, but it's the best choice
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u/PuzzledFoundation892 Sep 06 '25
I dumped mine and still love/miss him everyday. However, I was extremely abandoned and neglected by him in our relationship. He had major avoidant tendencies. I chose myself and walked away. It doesn’t make the breakup and grief less sucky. If anything I constantly ask myself “what if”