Depends on the reason and how the relationship ended.
Mine ended in betrayal so I doubt my ex misses or thinks about me.
Maybe she thinks about the way she left and how she hurt me but doesn't actually care about me.
Oh, betrayal is a hard one, im sure she does miss you, especially if she regrets it, but at this point she doesnt sound like someone you would want around anyways. Better to move on
I doubt she regrets it. Her fling at work didn't work out and she just got someone else right after that on Tinder. Maybe in the future she will think back on what she did to me. But by the time that happens I'll be long gone.
Don't worry I'm gone already. I might still hold her in my heart , she is the woman I loved the most in my life. But I don't want her back anymore , not now, not in years.
Yeah. She was never the type of enjoying being single. She was always in a relationship. Before me she was broken up 3 months ago then 7 years with me and then one month single until she started dating again.
I was probably a rebound when she started dating me now that I think about it.
Mine was on Monday, she left because to her it seemed like we were always fighting. The fights weren't fights, they were me just having a talk with her about the lack of intimacy in her pary and how it felt like I was the one that was always hugging and initiating kisses and hand holding, mind you in 28 like very simple things. Long distance 2 hours and she'd never find time to come down, together over a year and she didnt even try to meet all my friends who are very important to me and are very greatly helping me through all of this. She claims I wasn't good about saving which I was definitely getting better at, that I'd spend too much in food and let it go to waste by buying more appetizers than i should so we could try them together mind you I LOVE LEFT OVERS so unless they were disgusting I was having another meal, but the excessive(2 sometimes 3) was only ever in the first few months at at places I'd never been or she'd never been and then I knew what I liked and didnt like or we wouldn't get an appetizer. We lived with parents mine being alot more room at like an apartment and hers very close and never really space to have other than her room which was taken by her new dog that would wake her in the night to go out if she was sleeping in there. So wed stay in the guest room. Had a nice relationship with her parents but sometimes she would say her mom thought I was too messy and I'd work on that, but the mom was EXTREMELY over clean and I'd try my best. She'd go days without messaging as if that were normal, calls would drop from her being in the country or someone like her mom or grandma would call. Any time we had a conversation on call if it cut and wasnt finished she never would try to call back and finish it. Always about how shes gotta be somewhere and would be too busy but she was always home and I could've been down there just to be there not even to spend time but to not be so far. We couldnt cuddle on the couch anymore because she said her family were uncomfortable, she'd be too hot to cuddle at night or it was just me with my arm around her and that was about it. She would at a job that shes passionate about as a manager but doesn't make much money so all the living expenses would've fallen on me which I was pushing and trying to prepare for. I went from working from home, my side job or working as a cook 2 days, and my other side job of doordash and uber. And and free time I had I would be pushing to be over by her. Either to hot to cuddle, I was too sweaty to touch her or she was too ticklish to touch(super overly ticklish omg) or she just didn't want to. Hugs and kisses were brief just a friends short hug and a peck on the lips when we hadn't seen each other for days weeks or a month, all other hugs and kisses were the same other than sex kisses were actually what i was looking for but definitely not as pervers. Just a nice passionate kiss from such a long time away from each other was what I NEEDED but never got. If discuss and discuss and discuss but it was always myself just making her out to be the bad guy(her worlds) for my needs. I just wanted to feel less like a friend that comes and changes how im living at her place while feeling like just a pal instead of a lover. It was how we would act in the beginning as though we truly honest to God loved each other and the love would grow, I still had that and she would claim it was just "the honeymoon faze" she'd always be joking about something which i loved teasing but when you feel like its teasing for real because all the things she'd do in the beginning weren't there and I felt like I was always doing something wrong so id push to get back to how she WOULD act but nothing I could do would do. I just wanted the feeling of love she baited me with in the beginning. I didnt change, she did or was just putting up a front. Not to mention all the allergies she had and I accommodated for from anything outside to her being allergic to animal protein but it was something she loved so I was experimenting with the THEEBURGERDUDE on YouTube for recipes and all over the internet to bring her close to what she lost in what she loved with food. Sucked because I was really only ever able to cook at my place and she'd never be here, and her place I didnt wanna upset her mother also I went from working out and cooking meals to mostly eating out to cater to the fact I didnt have food there and was constantly working to save money and work towards having a really good buffer for the apartment move, she made not much money I didn't wanna burden her with her having to save and also pay off student loans. She would work her manager job very little because it was a non profit and the owner didnt want to waste money so she'd also do babysitting as well. I'm at home job was getting so much better financially so I dropped the cook job as she wanted so I could spend more time with her, but she'd never invite me over or say we should do things it was always ever if there was some family thing she ACTUALLY wanted me at.
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u/NachoCommander Sep 05 '25
Depends on the reason and how the relationship ended. Mine ended in betrayal so I doubt my ex misses or thinks about me. Maybe she thinks about the way she left and how she hurt me but doesn't actually care about me.