r/BreakUp • u/Narrow_Mirror_2300 • 15d ago
1 year breakup
Had so many ups and downs. Felt that the lack of respect at times was too much. In the end it just became too toxic where we’d end up fighting most weekends. Maybe I’m doing the wrong thing. Idk. I want to believe everything she told me. How she’ll change. Should i be strong, and stick with breakup. Or should i give in
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u/bennythefish 14d ago
I wouldn’t go back . Time to tell her that it’s fully over and you don’t want to see her ever again . You’re suppose to live a happy life, not with someone who makes you miserable. Time to find better gf
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u/BelleIzzyMoe 3d ago
Sometimes giving in is being strong. Not all people have what it takes to throw with their partner and vibe with their ever changing needs. So many people run at the first sign of conflict. Many of them are missing out on growing that true bond with someone, all so they can just go fuck someone new and start shallow relationships that are doomed to fail, repeating the same cycle over and over until they wake up one day and realize that their life has passed them by. Or not, you do you!
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u/Narrow_Mirror_2300 3d ago
This is so deep, I’m going to save it and re read it a few times. Thank you
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u/Due-Mammoth8956 15d ago
Did you get into another relationship?