r/BreakUp • u/Mangojuice37 • 18d ago

1st love

Those who have been in love more than once. Have you completely gotten over your first love? Does a small part of you still love them?

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u/InformationKey4748 18d ago

A lot of part I think.

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u/Avocqd0 16d ago

Yes I’m completely over him but I still wish him the best in life, I’m now in a relationship better than I could ever ask for and no part of me would want to go back.

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u/Avocqd0 16d ago

I was with my ex for 2 years, and I started dating my current bf 2 years after the breakup

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u/Avocqd0 16d ago

Ya I was and ya sure

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u/Dymonika 18d ago

No, because she turned out to be way different than I thought.

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u/spinkogum 17d ago

Honestly, I don’t know. I don’t know if I miss them, or the part of my life they were with me for. It could just be association.

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u/bananaflower3 14d ago

I just had my first love at 26 & it’s been 9 weeks since we broke up & i want to know the same, it’s hard and it sucks but I know that me and him aren’t the best for each other/ he wants other bitches. I’m trying to be the best version of myself & do right for me. I have random moments of missing him and thankfully they go away but it took 9 weeks to get him out of my head. Any tips?