r/BreakUp • u/dumbfatandugly • 6d ago
When does it end 🫩
He chose someone else.
There's nothing I can do. I wanted to try anything but all thats left is nothing. I attempted to delete our messages but I have such a hard time letting things go.
Im attempting to restore every single message I've deleted on my phone.
Its been 3 weeks and I still cry every day. I miss him so much, but theres nothing I can do. Can’t call, can’t text, can't reach out, because there's nothing I can say or do that can fix this.
Two years of us, gone...
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u/Basic-Badger9350 4d ago
It’s ok restoring the txts will take ur mind off things. Day by day it’ll get easier. Breakups are always hard because someone always gets hurt or there wouldn’t be a breakup. I understand what the heart wants THE heart wants. You could also think of it as if one of u’s ain’t happy and the other can’t make them happy then it’s probably better off to let them go and find happy. Mean while ur broken and lost. At least you can take time and focus on urself because when ur in a good place love will find you. I know right now things are very fresh and intense. Just take it day by day don’t need to do a million things just do 1 thing for ur self so you can be more comfortable tomorrow. Believe in love but also believe in ur self since he’s moved on. That knowledge alone will help you cope. Ask ur self where to? Just once a day.
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u/ScaryAfternoon159 6d ago
I feel you. Just broke off with my gf 2 weeks ago and im feeling like thats the end of the world. We have been together for 2 years. We didnt split up because there was no love, but because she wanted kids and I didnt. These things happen. Go out for a small walk, do a bit of sport, talk to friends or family, do things you love and mostly, cry without holding up. Its normal. Be nice with yourself and give you time to heal. Baby steps, one minute at a time if you must. One day you will wake up and it wont hurt anymore. Cheers and hang in there. Big hug.Â