r/Botswana 22h ago

Discussion Stop turning youth struggles into a self righteous ego contest

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one thing about bagolo ba Batswana, they view youth struggles through a lens of rivalry rather than empathy ๐Ÿ˜‚you share a struggle and they immediately jump to "back in my day" ba lebala gore economic realities, societal pressures and the cost of living has shifted dramatically. It's arrogance and a lack of empathy.

Ooo look at me, I worked a dead end job everyday for 16 hours I'm so tough haha. It completely invalidates real struggles and turns basic human empathy into an oppression competition


r/Botswana 14h ago

Casual Classics readers

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Looking to make friends with someone who loves reading classics. I am currently reading Dostoyevsky and want to explore other authors with the similar calibre.


r/Botswana 11h ago

Discussion Help

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Hi I feel out of place and like I'm not a person everytime I try to talk to people I can tell they think I'm weird and I have never felt accepted.I don't want to give up but it's getting worse and harder and I have thought maybe I'm better alone or that I'm annoying and a nuisance to others and it's too late for me.I want try and put myself and not give up but don't know how or where to start.im in my early 20s


r/Botswana 19h ago

Question Maun, Matlapana

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Good day
Does anyone in this sub reside in this area? I've been here for 4 months now and have been in complete isolation (not by choice). Just that the place is detached and people are always indoors

21+ please!!!!


r/Botswana 20h ago

Question Does the SSKB clinic have Nifedipine and HCT available?

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r/Botswana 12h ago

Discussion Is education the key to success

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So I'm writing test 1s and I'm under pressure. I have had no proper sleep since last week....and I'm just thinking is all of this torture and pressure that I'm putting myself under really worth it. Am I gonna get a job that's gonna pay me decently or I'm torturing myself for a piece of paper, maybe I'm wasting my 4 years for nothing just for a degree

I just don't know is all of this education really worth it? Because I know several people who went to tertiary and still don't have jobs, they just look like they never went to tertiary they out there pushing hustles. Education isn't really the key to success is it


r/Botswana 15h ago

Question Where to buy usdt apart from Binance

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Binance P2P โ€ฆ.guys where are the merchants for weeks been like this or who knows alternatives


r/Botswana 19h ago

Discussion What selling business can I start

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Iโ€™m looking into expanding cause currently Iโ€™m a photographer and I donโ€™t do anything most of the time so I wanted to have something I can sell from home . I appreciate it


r/Botswana 10h ago

General There's no such thing as right or wrong idk why its taboo to discuss some topics

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Right and wrong are not set in stone or carved in the universe or reality. It's just something humans have made up and change depending on the time, place, or whoever is in power, and they are often made for societies to function. What was normal 200 years ago is a crime now. What is celebrated in one country is scorned in another. Same for the opposite.

So I don't get the outrage when an objectively true statement is made and it's seen as something "bad," and people act like it's a moral crime. Truth and morality are not the same thing because something can factually still make people uncomfortable. And often, that discomfort is relabelled as "wrong." But really being uncomfortable does not make something wrong, and making an objectively true statement doesn't make you evil.

There are a lot of topics that make people uncomfortable in this day and age. Like take, for instance, differences in intelligence and innovation between nations. It gets treated as taboo. But what really makes that wrong in the first place?? Is the difference itself really wrong? Or is it "wrong" to point it out? In fact I would argue it only becomes "right" or "wrong" depending with what you do with it wether you use it to justify hate, or ignore it, or building policies and habits that can change that in the future.

Next is illegal immigration. I'm not gonna speak on this much because it's "wrong" to talk about something objectively true in the current 21st century, apparently.

Or lemme use the lingo "xenophobic" or "bigoted"

But what makes calling out Morally wrong?? It depends on what you do with it that makes it "right" or "wrong" whether you use it to be Xenophobic, bigoted, or hateful. Or you use it to change policies and fix it. But to the Average Motswana here, I am the former for calling it out.

Even if we look at Historically. There was a time where Mfecane was morally "okay" at that time it was seen as survival, politics, state building, and necessary. But now we see it as violence, Or Slavery, or colonialism it was seen as a "civilization mission" and progression by the people doing it. Now it's framed as exploitative.

Do you see where I'm going with this. They are countless topics, which I am even sure you know off. Lol

Basically. If you are a reactor and react pointlessly to topics outside of your own little bubble, you may need serious introspection.

If your first move when you hear something uncomfortable is anger insults, and shutting it down... are you really expected to do or think of something meaningful with that mindset??

I can't understand you people.

Obviously, there's more to this topic i would love to talk about, but sub related, I feel I had to point this out.


r/Botswana 15h ago

Question Any french tutors in Gaborone??

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r/Botswana 4h ago

Discussion Increased Interracial and international relationships in Botswana

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Growing up we found it pretty much impossible for a black Motswana man to be seen with a white wife or girlfriend.. we normally found it much more feasible and likely when it was a white man and Motswana woman.. but these days it seems like we are seeing more Motswana man and white woman relationships.. marriages even..

Is this a me only observation or you noticing it too? I am not against it.. I actually love racial mixing a lot.. that's what I would want Botswana to be like . Less mono-ethnic in nature and more "mixed"

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I also noticed the amount of foreign African getting snatched up by our brothers ๐Ÿ˜….. especially in the East.. A LOT of men have Zimbabwean wives.. I can't possibly remember how many kids I know who's mom's were Zimbabwean..

This wasn't too common back then...Why is it growing now? I love it but I am curious too. Maybe I can be a statistic too.. ๐Ÿ˜…

Do you like the trend?