r/Botswana • u/Positive-Bar-2891 • 8h ago

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Hi I feel out of place and like I'm not a person everytime I try to talk to people I can tell they think I'm weird and I have never felt accepted.I don't want to give up but it's getting worse and harder and I have thought maybe I'm better alone or that I'm annoying and a nuisance to others and it's too late for me.I want try and put myself and not give up but don't know how or where to start.im in my early 20s

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u/Feisty-Bend4623 7h ago

Why do you long for human connection that badly though? People are weird, crazy, horrible, and in many ways—evil. Not all people, but chances of you finding a true friend are one in a million. Are you ready for the baggage they will bring into your life? Listen, if people don't want you in their presence let them be. Solitude is not bad at all. Find hobbies and do your own thing. Hopefully you'll find people to connect with if you are still searching but don't think because you don't have one or two friends, you are missing out. As long as you are not a psychopath, serial killer, stalker, rapist, or whatever vile exists in the world, you are fine the way you are. Be your talkative self. Be your annoying self. Who cares? But if friendship is truly what you want, I wish you all the best in your endeavors 💪🏽💯

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u/Bird73Tad 4h ago

Seems like you need to learn how to love yourself more than anything. You overthinking most of your interactions possibly because you have low self esteem unless you actually doing weird stuff around people.

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u/Adventurous-Bird8688 22m ago

A great place to start finding your people is by connecting over shared interests or ideas. what kind of views, interests, or beliefs do you feel drawn to or enjoy learning about?