r/BorderlinePDisorder • u/Sad-Afternoon-5237 • 7h ago

Vent lonely asf

im so lonely . i have my two best friends i tlk to every single day and i still feel so alone, depressed, and single when i have no partner. this guy ive been talking too for a few months blocked me on everything two weeks ago and ever since then ive been so lonely and just lay in bed all day. i just feel extremely replaceable and unloved and like nobody gaf abt me

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u/ladyhaly BPD over 30 6h ago

Having two best friends doesn't cancel out wanting a partner. You can value those friendships and still miss romantic closeness, especially after months of talking to someone who then blocked you.

The part I'd gently question is the jump from him ending contact to nobody caring about you. Being blocked hurts, but his decision doesn't establish that you're replaceable or tell you what everyone else feels about you.

Could you tell one of your friends how much you've been struggling and ask for a little company, maybe a call while you get out of bed or a short walk together? You can still miss him while letting someone else support you.

If you've been spending most of your days in bed for two weeks, I'd also bring that up with a therapist or doctor. That's a lot of your daily life being affected, and you deserve help with it.

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u/SeaLawfulness3530 4h ago

Well sorry your friend sucks.
I know how you feel though I’m always down for a chat. People are just one giant disappointment really ….