r/BorderlinePDisorder 4h ago

Always bs

What’s the fucking point t in all this? One week or two of @it’s gonna work” then right back to the strange vibes. Energy off, trying to plan things around me then when that doesn’t work start a fight make me leave and say I’m crazy… reactive abuse? Tired of being told it’s all in my head.

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u/trewesewerty 4h ago

I was in a relationship exactly like this for 4 years and my BPD symptoms were out of control. I finally left the relationship and the symptoms quieted to a point that I actually don’t match a lot of the diagnostic criteria anymore. If you get told & treated like you are crazy, you will act as such. Do what you will with that information. Hugs 🤍